Help with my personal goal....

[IndiReloaded]

FF is on Netflix, yes.

I met my SO on a dating site. Keep the first message short and sweet. Once she engages, offer more info about yourself. Tell her what is cool about yourself but keep it authentic, then invite her to respond.

Sample response:

Thanks for your message. Well, I grew up in... in a home filled with ... I enjoy XYZ and lately I've been checking out ...

Don't ask her for suggestions, make a recommendation you go for a bike ride at a local park sometime as the weather gets nicer. Something like:

I see you enjoy cyling, so do I. Last year, I enjoyed some really nice rides at XXX. Why don't we meet for coffee for a meetup chat and, if we are both into it, we can plan for a ride around XXX in the coming weeks. Looking forward to your reply. Best,

[IndiReloaded]

Hope it works out for you, Cupcake.

HIA, check your PM, please. I need some advice.

[HeartIsAching]

HIA, check your PM, please. I need some advice.

Got it, stand by for an answer.

[Love'sReject]

I wonder when I'll notice I got ignored/rejected...

[HeartIsAching]

Quit it. Girls DO NOT like that self-put-down thing.

IT's just not attractive.

[Love'sReject]

Well, she read it. Ignored it. Greeaaat....Well, maybe I'll come across another profile in the next year or so that also attracts my attention and causes me to risk humiliation again..

[pcmaster]

When you PM her its easier to think that you have a huge cock it ill give you so much more confidence to talk like big man.

[bearz]

Well, she read it. Ignored it. Greeaaat....Well, maybe I'll come across another profile in the next year or so that also attracts my attention and causes me to risk humiliation again..

Move on to the next one.

[HeartIsAching]

Humiliation? Why? How? She's some chick you've never seen. Move the **** on.

And you're going to give up? You ARE a pansy.

[Wakeup]

Well, she read it. Ignored it. Greeaaat....Well, maybe I'll come across another profile in the next year or so that also attracts my attention and causes me to risk humiliation again..

There is absolutely no need to be humiliated because a total stranger ignored your email. NONE. Its simply a lost opportunity (her lost opportunity, not yours) Remember: You're the prize...

[Love'sReject]

It doesn't make sense: they all write in their profile about how friendly they are, yet they don't even respond to messages.

[Love'sReject]

Humiliation? Why? How? She's some chick you've never seen. Move the **** on.

And you're going to give up? You ARE a pansy.

I guess I'll try again later. I only lay it on the line for very few broads..

[HeartIsAching]

Actually, there's nothing wrong with waiting a day or so and trying AGAIN with this one. Start with some sort of sincere flattery - "I'm really picky, and out of all the profiles on here, yours was the only one that's caught my eye. I'd really like to get to know you a little more, even if it doesn't work out.

[HeartIsAching]

You try again and I'll change my signature line.

[Wakeup]

DO NOT try with her again. I know if someone emailed me and I didn't respond, the last thing I'd want is another one from him. You want someone who is keen. If she's read it then leave it be and let her come to you. If she doesn't, then eff her and the horse she rode in on... her loss.

And quit being so GD picky. You can't afford to be. Pick a girl who won't intimidate you like this one did. A down to earth, attractive yet not flashy person.. just like yourself.. Capice?

... And keep it short. I've read from a thousand women that the long emails are not attention getting. In other words don't be sending missives the way I post... lolzzz