100% over with my EX, not staying friends

[Kromat83]

She decided that we can't even stay friends, when i was fine with it.

Told me to not communicate with her anymore, because i don't
want to see her in Poland, because it'll help me move on easier
and not have her mess with my emotions anymore.

I also told her that she should talk to me as a friend only and not bring up the past.

I have things to look forward to in the future, but guess she's hurt from
the truth i told her, so now I see what type of person she actually is,
and wants no part of what i have to say.

It's hard to lose a good friend, but i'll find others that
actually like talking to me, and spending the time.

Thanks for being on the journey that started in January, which made me learn a
lot about myself and how i should approach relationships in the future.

I'll be back to talk about others that come my way, and hope
you enjoy what i provide and help me in my new direction.

[fearoflove]

I don't think she counts as an ex. Didn't you only date her for like a week or two?

[Kromat83]

no, it was a month ... but we grew feelings quite fast,

We spent lots of time together in those 30 days, and she kissed me on the lips first, we held hands, cuddled, were happy to see each other each time, it was infatuation, but there was still something there.

It just wasn't meant to last, but i did consider her my girlfriend, because i saw that she felt it too.

She wouldn't cry at her steps after receiving the news of going back home early, if she didn't feel anything.

We even slept together because there I thought there was something there, and she even liked that we spent the night.

Friends don't share those type of emotions, even if it was short lived, she still enjoyed the time we spent.

[fearoflove]

Ah. Ok. Just go out with more chicks, do the same thing, and you will realize those feelings can be recreated over and over again. I did these same things (without the sex), with over...I don't remember how many. The first month is always great because its fresh.

[Forrester.080]

Hello Kromat, we really hope to hear your sharing. I have an advise for you in your next relationships, just follow your heart, there's no way we can help you decide better than you do.