Do I have a chance with him?

[pcmaster]

Well you have right attitude about love(100% positive) and it would work for sure with some of your classmates but not with this guy. Like I mentioned before you have tiny chance. Its basicaly a lottery thats how much chance you have. However better start practicing relationships cause you will need some experience when you meet your dream guy. Start with guy who are local and your age so you can at least learn kissing and talk with guys with not boring them out.

[Alphyn]

You are COMPLETELY out of your mind, yes. That's what you are EXACTLY. You don't even know this guy at all. Sorry but what the ****, I'm drunk now but what the **** lol, serious. Wow I was hoping to lucid dream tonight but I'm gonna have nightmares probaly.

Sleep well all of you! Except OP.

[Princess Kiara]

Well you have right attitude about love(100% positive) and it would work for sure with some of your classmates but not with this guy. Like I mentioned before you have tiny chance. Its basicaly a lottery thats how much chance you have. However better start practicing relationships cause you will need some experience when you meet your dream guy. Start with guy who are local and your age so you can at least learn kissing and talk with guys with not boring them out.

That's just the thing, though. I don't plan on kissing or on having a relationship with someone with whom I don't plan to be in a meaningful way. I do not care for any of my classmates and if I were to do as you suggest I would merely be using them, and I will do that to no one.
Besides, you don't know my classmates, who are the only boys I have access to They are lazy, ill-bred, they curse, yell, insult each other, and have even called me a whore just to insult me (it doesn't affect me, of course. Why should it? I'm not a whore and I know it. I've never even been in a relationship ). Thing is, they dislike me because I'm the 'nerd' and have the highest grades in the school. You'll find this hard to believe, but my class's grade average, even with my 9s and 10s, is hovering at around 4.5, up from 1.5 at the beginning of the year. I'm the only person who is exempt from finals in all subjects; some people in my class are going straight to finals even in P.E. Most don't turn in homework, and they treat their girlfriends (and even strange girls) carelessly and heartlessly. I have had to fight to keep them from touching me in inappropriate ways.
The only boy who is different is the boyfriend of the daughter of the kindergarten principal (who is also the sister of the general principal), and she is a very jealous person, so even though he's nice enough, I dare not go near him. And I don't love or even like him. He's just fun to be with, is all. A friend.
Any mind games or anything of the sort, though, that might help me practice kissing? XD What does it feel like? And how do you do it? [/is completely confused]
Also, what kind of chat topics do *intelligent* guys usually like? I'm not into politics and I can't go out much. I tend to base my jokes on what I learn at school, which everyone but the teachers seems to find a bit dull, but then considering how they are... I love animals, videogames, Web design, computers, music (of course!), horse racing, a good thrill, running, swimming, gardening, arts and crafts...I have a feeling most guys won't like what I like, although I am something of a tomboy and am not afraid to pick up ladybugs, ants, butterflies, snails, slugs or even snakes and lizards...
Thanks again!

EDIT: I know beauty is only skin deep, but besides, the cutest guy at my school is the PE teacher, and he's only average at best. The girls are cuter; the geography teacher (who also happens to be my BFF; am I perhaps only seeing her through the eyes of my affection?) is the prettiest, but that doesn't really help me now does it? XD I'm straight, and not even the PE teacher is anything close to attractive. Coupled with their impossible personalities...you get the picture. Most all of my male classmates are lazy, conceited, selfish, rude, ill-mannered and, to top it all, ugly.

[pcmaster]

You remind me my sister. She also had super hight grades but she was bit nerdy and always fell for most popular guys in class and ended up crying(stupid bitch).

If you want to know how kissing feels then theres only one way how to find out - do it ! With someone you like it feels very nice, but with someone whos not interesting its just a simple skin contact with no special feel. And theres noo right way how to kiss, everyone have their own way, you just have to find yours.

[toknow]

LOL...I will interrupt pcmaster's kissing lessons for a second and say it's quite ironic he has that quote printed on every one of his posts, "Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will" and he is telling you forget about your dream...funny you pointed it out. Touché.

You suggest she learn on other boys, that she feels nothing about? And what exactly will she learn...to be with someone who she feels nothing for. This is the best way for her to learn, to go after something seemingly impossible, someone who makes her feel higher emotions.
That's living. Have you heard the quote "It's not the destination, but the journey that counts"? Look at all the positive that's coming out of this, it makes her dream, it makes her go after something
very hard to attain and it's not stopping her, it makes her be artistic, want to learn another language. She will learn a lot from this whatever the outcome.
A dream is not as impossible as it may seem, if it's not impossible to truly believe in that dream.

[pcmaster]

Well its good to dream but I don't think that dreams that makes you ignore reality around you is any good. Many people been wasting their life like that. Dreaming about Ferrari when they don't even have a bike. Or dreaming be a president when they don't even have a good grades at school.

If you look at succesful people then they always took small steps to get where they are. Look at Arnold Swartzeneger - did he married on presidents grandauther straight away when he came to US? No he became BB champion first and made a movie star career(he become big first before attract big people like his ex-wife). Also he had few serious girlfriends first too so he knew how to handle women too. You can't ignore the recipe of success.

What princess have in common with these succesful people is she dare to dream big and don't listening to anyone who doubting in her. Yet with this dream she don't even have chance to fail yet. At least send few fan letters first to see where she's are on the map.

[Princess Kiara]

LOL...I will interrupt pcmaster's kissing lessons for a second and say it's quite ironic he has that quote printed on every one of his posts, "Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will" and he is telling you forget about your dream...funny you pointed it out. Touché.

You suggest she learn on other boys, that she feels nothing about? And what exactly will she learn...to be with someone who she feels nothing for. This is the best way for her to learn, to go after something seemingly impossible, someone who makes her feel higher emotions.
That's living. Have you heard the quote "It's not the destination, but the journey that counts"? Look at all the positive that's coming out of this, it makes her dream, it makes her go after something
very hard to attain and it's not stopping her, it makes her be artistic, want to learn another language. She will learn a lot from this whatever the outcome.
A dream is not as impossible as it may seem, if it's not impossible to truly believe in that dream.

How can I ever thank you enough, toknow!? My views exactly!
Oh, I do hope I have a chance. I love him so. My heart flutters whenever I hear his voice, or even see or hear anything that makes me think of him. I've had to stop myself from talking about him so much at school so my classmates won't think I'm weird...not that it would make much difference anyway XD
I've thought I liked other guys before. But, as you said, this is living, this is true love!
Should I seek him out on Facebook? I do have the means to do so, and I know some of his fans have chatted with him there before. Is it a bad idea perhaps to ask for a little one-on-one attention every once in a while?
Thanks again!

P.S. I won't really need kissing/relationship experience, will I? Because I can truly say that I feel nothing for anyone else, not even my lifelong friend whom I used to like.

[Alphyn]

Right excuse me for my post, I really was drunk lol. I'm sorry. Oh I was also stoned to top it off.

Anyway I think your goal is a bit unrealistic OP, but go ahead and chat him up. Do whatever you can, but don't come across as he's the only one for you. Good luck.

[pcmaster]

How can I ever thank you enough, toknow!?

Start with pressing thanks button girl.

P.S. I won't really need kissing/relationship experience, will I? Because I can truly say that I feel nothing for anyone else, not even my lifelong friend whom I used to like.

Yes you dont need it, you can practicce on Arsenys poster instead. Who need real boyfriend anyway when you can have imaginative one?

At least send him your picture so he can kiss you

[Princess Kiara]

Start with pressing thanks button girl.

It won't show up, for some reason...

Yes you dont need it, you can practicce on Arsenys poster instead. Who need real boyfriend anyway when you can have imaginative one?

Haha so true. Maybe I'm just insane or something, but I've actually had to keep myself from kissing my computer screen when looking at pictures of him XD

At least send him your picture so he can kiss you

Won't that seem a bit too obvious? My mom told me the secret to getting a guy is not being easy to get, then he will feel that he has to, so to speak, "hunt you out", and that will make him want you. I know that's true; I've seen it at work in real life...
How do I show him (or make him think) that I'm not interested, though, if I do ever meet him? Especially since I am so interested. LOL...

Right excuse me for my post, I really was drunk lol. I'm sorry. Oh I was also stoned to top it off.

Anyway I think your goal is a bit unrealistic OP, but go ahead and chat him up. Do whatever you can, but don't come across as he's the only one for you. Good luck.

No problem, Alphyn Thank you for your support! Have a good night

[smackie9]

The secret to getting guys is thinking like them....they like a girl that really "gets them" for example learn to enjoy porn and don't nag at them. Know your place.

[Princess Kiara]

The secret to getting guys is thinking like them....they like a girl that really "gets them" for example learn to enjoy porn and don't nag at them. Know your place.

Erm...sorry, what?

[pcmaster]

What smackie mean is sometimes understanding is even more than love. Its like you dont actually have to love machine to use it but understand it and it will work great with just a little bit love and a lot if understanding.

[Princess Kiara]

I see! Well, of course I understand that guys have needs (heck, we girls do, too!), and if he wants to watch or not watch whatever he wants or doesn't want to watch, well, who am I to say anything to him about it even assuming he did choose me to be his gf? He can do whatever he likes and it wouldn't bother me (as long as he isn't hurting himself or anyone else, of course...)
That what you mean? Rest assured, I know what it's like not to be understood, and I would never do that to anyone else.
Never.

[pcmaster]

That what you mean? Rest assured, I know what it's like not to be understood, and I would never do that to anyone else.

Never do what, Princess?