Sex vs. love making

[Am I crazy?]

I have made love to my wife where we kissed, cuddled and loved on each other. Then there are times when we just throw off our clothes and have a quick dirty **** without all the loving stuff. Usually he love making is done at home when more time is available to relax, the ****s are more like the quickies.

[searock]

Love the last two posts. I don't actually believe in love making and let me explain first before being crucified. I have the most amazing girl and we both say we have sex. Yes we love each other and show our love in many ways. Sex for us is a physical act for the pleasure of both parties. I guess we both view the world for what it is and don't romanticize it too much. Yes I am romantic, but she's not interested in candles to set the mood or flowers, which suits me just fine (she is so uncomplicated). Sex is sex, regardless of whether you love someone or not. Love making I think is a line fed from the movies.

If I defined love making as overly romanticized and cheesy sex, then I would dislike it too.