I'm 36 Years Old, Model, & I've Never Had a Girlfriend

[Jonathan48]

Hey, i just needed a place to vent right now........i get so upset seeing guys out in public with their hot girlfriends.
And advice would be great......i'm not sure what i haven't heard before.
I'm 36 years old, and I'VE NEVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND MY ENTIRE LIFE.
And i'm still a virgin.........i've never even kissed a girl before.
What's wrong with me?!?! It may be a combination of the fact that i'm a dork (which i'm proud of), i'm shy around girls (but confident in other areas), a bohemian, a radical progressive, & i'm weird i guess.
I model part time (in addition to being a grad student and working in the social work field), so i don't think looks is a problem (i've attached a couple pics of me below).
I always ask myself, "What am i doing wrong? How are these guys able to get these girls to go out with them? What's wrong with me?"
I'm so frustrated (i've posted vlogs on YouTube to express my frustration, but not satisfied, i'm still upset).
Everyone says i'm a really sweet guy & have a beautiful heart, so why can't i get a girlfriend?
How were you guys able to get a girlfriend?????

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[Immaisback]

Haven't looked at your photos, because that's just gay, but I got a gf through being awesome. Try it.

[Mehrad59]

Dude go to youtube
Then search simple pick up.
Watch all the videos of the channel 'simplepickup'
Then go talk to random girls in the street, simple as that

[Boisdevie]

I got a girlfriend because I've got:
A Ferrari 250GTO, a mansion in the countryside and a private jet. And I never lie. Oh no, not me.

[davonr]

have you tried to purpose a girl or express a feelings to any girl whom you likes just try out practically not finding in youtubes..

[fearoflove]

You have that...um...douche look.

[michelle23]

there is nothing wrong with how you look. Have you tried online dating?

[dem862]

All my girlfriends have thrown themselves at me. What's a guy gonna do...

[pcmaster]

Dont worry what people are saying about your looks - they never posted their pictures.

You know maybe you should just talk with girls more until you get results.
I tried these exercises and they helped feel more confident and relaxed. Maybe they can help you aswell.

Exercises For Building Confidence
youtube.com/watch?v=nzK3g0pT250

Fear of public speaking or in front of others
youtube.com/watch?v=m2MSC8G_f50

How to create a DEEPER voice
youtube.com/watch?v=P41ER1Wmkj0&NR=1&feature=endscreen

[dem862]

I model part time (in addition to being a grad student and working in the social work field). Everyone says i'm a really sweet guy & have a beautiful heart, so why can't i get a girlfriend?

You might be a homosexual. Not that there's anything wrong with that.

[michelle23]

Guys can you at least try to give some serious advice?

OP you are good looking. Id say you just lack confidence. Join a dating site and start meeting people

[michelle23]

Feel free to pm me if you want more advice

[pcmaster]

Guys can you at least try to give some serious advice?

Pcmaster gave the best advice here - try it if you dont belive.

[rhonddamayne]

do you have any girl friends though?

[TwillightBrony]

wow!

Besides your ridiculous hairstyle you look extremely well (well you also could use some workout, but take me with reserve, I am fitness trainer and quite a fanatic : )) )

well there is very little I can tell you with informations you provided. Its definetely not in your look but than, look is not so important as many people think! Womens think we really appreciate their personality and men that womans are interested in our pumped-up muscles : ))

no, seriosly. you could be very interesting subject. Most Involuntary Celibate people ( if I understand correctly you dont have sexual life... or do you?) are rather ugly or awkard or lazy or unsuccessful people... what is nothing that describes you. Therefore I am very interested in your personality and honestly, I cant help you how to become sexual beast because I am equally lame ( but also show some of your qualities - representative look, education, activity...) but at least I can offer you I believe not-so-insignificant knowledge of human sexuality ( it sounds terrible, just another term for dating )

so... looking forward to hear of you!

PS: my first advice: definitely listen to woman. Michelle23 wants to talk to you (maybe even date you ) . Definetely dont take womans seriosuly or literally, if any woman knew what she wants world would turn into Elysium once agian far long ago but its not like that ....

ou yeah one more thing that might brigten your day: according even to scientific researches you are physically womans idol! (tall, tanned, dark haired, italian look...)