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Thread: Should I stay or should I leave?

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    Should I stay or should I leave?

    I'm currently in a relationship with a guy for a few months now. His 7years older than me. He works away from home so I usually see him when his at home or on leave. Lately things have not been the same he just started to change.

    We are in an interdomianlly relationship although our cultures are different we love each other to bits.

    Things were always great between us but now its started to all just fall into the drain. He has started to lie to me so much that I can't take it . He says he has big plans for us for the future but doesn't get that far with them and always has excuses for it. He has broken all of the promise he had made to me. His just not the same anymore. Its like he has changed into someone I don't even know. I don't know what to do I tried talking to him but he refuses to give me a hearing. He says he love me and I'm the only girl for him, should I believe it or not.

    I really love this with everything I have in me what should I do?

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    If hes lying to you-dump him and dont go back

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    You know why he seems different after a few months? You are finally getting to know what he is really like. He's a liar who told you what you wanted to hear so he could bang you. Now he is telling some more lies to get you to stay with him. You see through his lies now, but you are still in love with the lie and wish it could be real.
    Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.

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    You cant really lie to people you love or feel good about it. So if he cant say the truth then I wonder how can he love.
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

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