Is my girlfriend straight or bisexual?

[ponhei9502]

Hi, My name is Pontus. I am new here. In a bit of a dilema though.
I am in kind of a long distance relationship with a girl from Australia. She says that she is straight but wouldn't mind getting oral from a female. But she would have a hard time reciprocating. I do trust her and she hasn't done anything sexual before. She says that she has imagined us getting married and so have I. She doesn't find vaginas attractive though. She says that females usually does a better work down there but yeah, I have no clue. I really really like this girl but I don't know what to do about those feelings. Any suggestions? Is she just bicurious or would you define her as bisexual? What would you recomend i do? Would most of you straight girls mind if you got oral from a female?

[michelle23]

Its just a fantasy in her mind. I dont think its really a big deal tbh. She prob heard girls are better at oral and is only repeating what she heard or maybe it was just dirty talk trying to turn you on a bit.

Ask her is it something that shed ever actually do? If she says no dont worry about it.

[ponhei9502]

Its just a fantasy in her mind. I dont think its really a big deal tbh. She prob heard girls are better at oral and is only repeating what she heard or maybe it was just dirty talk trying to turn you on a bit.

Ask her is it something that shed ever actually do? If she says no dont worry about it.

I don't know. She seems quite serious about it. I've asked her before if she'd ever do it and she said that if she found the right girl then yes.

[michelle23]

While shes with you? Are you okay with that? If not-time to end the relationship my friend.

[ponhei9502]

While shes with you? Are you okay with that? If not-time to end the relationship my friend.

I think I would be alright with it yes. I want her to experience life and get to know herself. And if this is the way. Then sure. Is this a normal thing? I mean that females wouldnt mind if another female went down on them?

[michelle23]

I wouldnt do it. What if she likes it and wants to do it again? if it were another man would you feel different?
What if she develops feelings for the girl?

[pcmaster]

Looks straight to me.

[ponhei9502]

I wouldnt do it. What if she likes it and wants to do it again? if it were another man would you feel different?
What if she develops feelings for the girl?

Well I'm sure she would like it. After all, it's oral sex. I would feel differently if it was a male yes. And if she does, then maybe we weren't meant for each other. If she can't stay faithful even after I would've let her do such a thing then I wouldn't want to be with her either way. But I strongly doubt that will happen. We have really strong feelings for each other.

[searock]

Have you two ever seen each other in person?

[Cerby]

She is bi-curious until she actually does it and determines how she feels about it. Trust me my friend, if you two are ever physically living together, a bi girlfriend can be one of the best perks in the world.

[ponhei9502]

Have you two ever seen each other in person?

Not yet no. Well we've talked on webcam and skype but that's it.

[ponhei9502]

She is bi-curious until she actually does it and determines how she feels about it. Trust me my friend, if you two are ever physically living together, a bi girlfriend can be one of the best perks in the world.

Maybe, she told me that those things doesn't matter, that she is probably straight and that I shouldn't worry about it.

[michelle23]

She is bi-curious until she actually does it and determines how she feels about it. Trust me my friend, if you two are ever physically living together, a bi girlfriend can be one of the best perks in the world.

only if your into that kinda thing. Some men are purely monogamous and happy that way.

[searock]

Not yet no. Well we've talked on webcam and skype but that's it.

So you aren't really in a relationship with each other.

Anyway, I think she's just bicurious. Or maybe just very young.

[ponhei9502]

So you aren't really in a relationship with each other.

Anyway, I think she's just bicurious. Or maybe just very young.

Well it's a relationship but not a physical one yet. She isn't that young no. Maybe just bicurious then