I feel I need to get this in writing.
My gf drove over to my house yesterday to tell me she would no longer be able to see me. I believe the exact words were 'I can't do this anymore'. We had met over two years ago when we were both hired at the time. We were both working a fairly remote part of northern Canada. She was instantly attracted to me, but I rejected her, explaining that I had emotional and psychological issues that would stand in the way. I simply wasn't interested. Still, we talked everyday and quickly became close. Eventually, the friendship took a romantic turn and we moved in together.
She was madly in love with me, and wanted to spend every minute in my company. I felt somewhat alarmed that someone could have some intense feelings for me. After all, I've always had a fairly low opinion of myself. I quickly discovered that she had a volatile emotional tendency. She would get hysterically upset, sobbing forever until I was able to console her.
Last December I got a job back in the city I'm from. She moved back too, but we were unable to live together. I asked her to be patient, but that wasn't an acceptable option for her. She simply became extremely upset and anxious on a very frequent basis. We fought a lot and whatever desire I had for her was beginning to ebb. That's my summary.
Yesterday - as I said - she drove over, and calmly explained her decision. She wanted to spend one last evening 'together'. The whole thing was so raw and emotional. She said how much she loved me, how she put me on a pedestal, how she had looked up to me. There was many other superlatives. It was all so incredibly sad. I felt I was part of one of those manipulative tear jerking films.
I feel gored now. This is a person that has been in my life for the last year and a half. I used to live with her. I saw her everyday for months. I'm shattered.
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