What should I do? HELP PLEASE

[clydej]

To make a long story short, me and this guy knew eachother for 3 years. We liked eachother on and off. Until this year. Since August he ask me out. Hes a VERY popular guy, plays footballs, ladies love him. Well i'm not unpopular, but not nearly as popular as him. We dated for almost a month ( not long I know ) but we had liked eachother for a while. When I was with him, I was EXTREAMLY shy. We didnt talk much, nothing. Dont get me wrong, we had our good times though. Well I found myself avoiding him alot because I was always worried what his friends thought. While we dated, I kissed a girl. No emotional attachment, just a kiss . ( I'm a girl btw ) . I found that I was bisexual. I had NO PLANS ON BREAKING UP WITH HIM. I'm not really clear on why this is, but he ended up breaking up with me. He said I was a cute and sweet girl but we should breakup . Everything was fine that day ! ( no it wasnt because of this kiss) . Well I lied and said I broke up with him because I didnt like the idea of him dumping me ! We got really angry, and he said he never felt like he could be himself with me. We didnt talk for a while, them a few days later he texts me. He said hes sorry for everything, and we said we still had feelings for eachother. We didnt date again. When we got at school, we didnt talk. He ask why we didnt. I just said there really wasnt much to say. A while goes by , we still dont talk. I end up dating a girl and coming out as bi. He finds out, and starts talking shit about us, his 2 friends join in. His cousin messages me telling me off. So I basically just told them ALL OFF. We hated eachother for a while. The girl that I kissed, told him we kissed eachother as well. After all this, we said really hurtful things to eachother. Its been 6 months, and i'm now single. I think of him EVERYDAY. I miss him so much. Since the breakup, I embarrassed myself so much trying to get his attenion. Laughing at him, etc. I wrote a note telling him I didnt wanna date or anything, But I missed him & missed being his friend. And I was sorry for laughing and stuff at him. My friend gave it to him, and she said he smiled and said everythings cool. A few weeks back, he ask my friend if I was still mad. Well i've heard from this one girl that he likes her and stuff. It really hurts me. Ever since the note, hes been Right NEXT TO ME, and hasnt talked to me. WHY? Also we was at breakfast and me and my friend had no other place to sit, and he was one seat down from me and his bestfriend said ( talking to my ex) " You and david should switch seats!" ( david was sitting beside me so if he wouldve switched seats with my ex, my ex wouldve been beside me) . Theres 13 days of school left, and I need help FAST. PLEASE! I'm in highschool btw.

[VerticalMoon]

Forget about him. He's a bigot. I don't see why you'd want to get back together with anybody who would make fun of your sexuality. You really need to work on your self-esteem. Besides which, talking to each other still doesn't come easily to you guys, so a relationship wouldn't have worked out anyway. You guys also fight way too much when you're not even dating, so dating him would only make things worse. And stop laughing at guys you want to get together with. Even for high school, that's pretty immature. Try to focus on your friends, hobbies, and school instead.

[HeheMan]

Ah yes, highschool, where every girl is "bisexual". Girl you sound like a train wreck. Get yourself some cats and leave this poor guy alone. You're obviously not committed to him if you're avoiding him and kissing other people while you're dating him.

[Wakeup]

Girl, you don't even know what sex you want never mind who you want. Just chill and let Mr. Football go on summer break because he's not going to be any kind of decent longterm partner anyway at this time of his life. So: learn how to be happy without a boyfriend or a girlfriend of the romantic kind for the time being. Wash that boy (and girl) right out of your hair and just have summer fun being you and figuring yourself out.

[michelle23]

Lol how do you all of a sudden realize your bi? Makes no sense to me *shakes head* teenage drama. Youll look back at all this in a few years and laugh. Forget your man hes an ass

[clydej]

I knew I was curious since I was 11. I defeinelty realized I was bisexual after that kiss. And I'm a senior. I will be graudating next month, so to " hehe man" , thats not so.

[HeheMan]

I knew I was curious since I was 11. I defeinelty realized I was bisexual after that kiss. And I'm a senior. I will be graudating next month, so to " hehe man" , thats not so.

Everything I said still stands. You are in highschool, claiming "bisexuality" cuz you kissed a girl (lol), that kiss occurred while you were dating someone else, and also avoiding that person for stupid reasons.

You are a train wreck.

[clydej]

Look , i'm dealing with enough problems , I didn't ask to be judged . If you are going too , get the hell off my thread . You were making it out like I just woke up one day and said " WHOOHO I'M BI!" . I am tryin to tell you , i've known for a WHILE . Not to mention , he is no saint . I've made mistakes , but I forgot to mention the time him & his cousin threatened to hit my girlfriend & chased me down the hallway ! But yeah , I'm all wrong here !

[HeheMan]

You're such a mess.

Who cares what he did. We're talking about you.

First you say you're in highschool, then deny it.

First you say you "discovered you were bi", now you're saying you've known for a WHILE.

You are messed up.

Take this summer to come back down to earth and get your head sorted.

And leave this poor guy alone. Young men have enough problems to deal with without some messed up train wreck of a girl giving them grief.

EDIT: Not to mention how you basically cheated on this guy by making out with someone else while you were dating him. Also not to mention that you basically ignored him while you dated him and now that he's gone you're all over him.