OP break up with her. What are you waiting for?
Its easy to say dump. Its the first relationship for a guy. How can you dump all you ever had?
Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will
Well it wont be the last. They are not compatible.
You guys may be right, and if this relationship is doomed then i'm gonna go down with the ship. May as well have some fun
May as well... Go for the threesome but change the rules so that you are the center of attention and both the girls are all over YOU. It's time that you looked at yourself as being "The Prize" instead of giving her ALL the power in your relationship. If you're going to accept her bullshit then why not set the pace?
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
This is most mens fantasy. Go with it