I'll try to make this story as short as possible, but I have to give out some details so people can understand this specific situation.
So I've met this girl somewhere like 5 months ago, we first did online chat. We bonded a lot! We have so many things in common, it's like she's the female version of me, we basically think the same. She's like my mirror reflection. I live in a different city (she'll move there in autumn, for university, like I did) so we couldn't see each other very often. We then started talking more and more, we went out a few times, having a lot of fun, especially lately. The second time we went out, we visited a lake, it was a late evening, long story short I tried to kiss her. It didn't feel right for me neither, I don't know why I tried to do it (of course she backed off). I apologized for what I did, things became weird for a few days, but I started acting like before and things went back to normal. Oh, by the way. In that evening, she was kinda flirting with me, throwing snowballs at me and things like that. But I found out she was still recovering after a break-up with a guy (who was her first love) so I guessed she was being confused. We did a lot of trips together, in the mountains, driving, walking, we really had a good time, every time. And she never said "no" when I asked her out. I fell in love with her. Every time we were on a date she was finding a reason to touch me, or gently slap me or something (we are making fun of each other A LOT, of course joking). And last night we were in a park where I fell in love with her, she was talking to me and she was shaking, her voice was shaking, I was starring in her eyes a lot, she was doing it too, but she was very nervous, I could see that. I am a nice guy, I respect her and her needs, I was there for her when she needed me, but I'm not a wuss, please know the difference.
On our way back home I told her (kind of all of a sudden) that I fell in love with her, first she started laughing, because we laugh a lot, I joke a lot with her, I kept a serious calm tone telling her I was not joking. She told me something like "I'm still hoping that in a few minutes you'll laugh your ass off making fun of me". But when she saw that I was really serious about it she became quiet. After 5 minutes she said "I always have a reply for anything but now I am speechless"
Now, I don't know how she took it. She expressed herself using this: "It's like you want your father to give you a nice laptop but instead he gives you a monopoly game" and she told me that "things will never be the same, I won't be able to tell you all the small things in my life anymore, I won't be able to joke dirty with you" and so on ... I hope you get the point. She also told me that she "won't be backing off from me, like not returning my texts or ignore me". So, today we had a little chat, I told her that I want to meet and clarify some things, I don't want to leave things like this. Now, I don't want to say all I have to say and I want her to see I'm a man and not a wuss for expressing my feelings (even though I was, for taking away all the mystery in the "relationship"). Before I dropped her home, I asked her to think about having a serious relationship with me. I also asked her not to give me an instant reply, but to think about it.
Oh, today it was like this:
Me: I'm picking you up on Sunday, I want us to make some things clear.
Girl: What kind of things you want to clarify????
Me: Things. I don't want to leave things like this
Girl: Ok, there are some things we need to clarify. Because I want John (my name) back. The 3-days-ago John )
Me: I'm the same John. But the one you want will never come back...
Girl: I don't care how, make him come back )
Me: I won't ignore you from now on, or act like I never met you. We'll see what we'll do next. And about that last thing I asked you last night, forget it. I gave it some thinking and I understood some things.
So, basically I was kinda' rejected, but not all the way, she didn't say "let's just be friends". She's a very mysterious girl, pretty and hot, but she's got a big heart and a strong character. What I'm saying is that there are a lot of guys who like her, but I know she turns down a lot of them, before dating, and she never refused me once, I was always there for her. So, tomorrow I will meet her to clarify the freakin' things.
Any advice what I should do next? I'm not giving up on her, I'll be patient and wait for her. But what should I tell her? What should I tell her that I want from us now? If I'll scare her with something like "If we won't be together, you'll lose me forever" I'm sure I will be the one to lose her forever, she gets enough attention from friends. She will never make the first step, I'm sure about it. Btw, she's a scorpio woman, but not 100%.