confused and wondering

[namrata23]

ok so here goes..hope som1 has an answer 4 me

[searock]

It depends on what he texts you, if he texts you. Let us know when/if he does.

[namrata23]

but what do u think of the whole situation otherwise?

[searock]

Up till now, you two only shared a few dates and some snuggles. There was no talk about the future, definitely no talk about exclusivity. Maybe he decided he isn't interested, maybe he's playing hard to get - it's too early to tell. If he doesn't contact you in a week, then you'll know that he isn't interested. Otherwise, we'll see.

Slightly off-topic: you did the right thing by refusing to have sex with him. Don't let anyone pressure you into having sex... it will happen when *you* feel comfortable enough, and a guy who isn't willing to accept that doesn't deserve you.

[namrata23]

thanks a lot for that advice.. i am getting a feeling he's gonna contact after exams end which is after 2 weeks..ill post here whenever he does and please do reply

[Wakeup]

You didn't have "sex" with him (as in intercourse) but what did you do with him, if anything? Now that he's gotten 'something' and he's busy with exams, you're the last thing likely on his mind. Just exactly did you do when you did "everything to make him feel good?"

If he does call you when he's finished his exams, I suggest you stop meeting him in his room and see if he actually wants to get to know you for more than how 'good' you make him feel. Invite him out to do something outside of your dorm rooms.