+ Follow This Topic
Results 1 to 5 of 5

Thread: Best means to ask out a lady face to face?

  1. #1
    Join Date
    Jul 2011
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Ohio
    Posts
    90

    Best means to ask out a lady face to face?

    I'm in love with someone and despite being able to exhibit confidence and charisma in conversation, I get cold feet when it comes to actually asking her out. It would be easy to give into the temptation to ask via private message through facebook but feel as if it would diminish my chances of a "yes" response.

  2. #2
    vashti's Avatar
    vashti is offline Hot love muffin guru
    Country:
    Users Country Flag
    "Hot Love Pancake(s)"
    Join Date
    Dec 2005
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    22,890
    When you see her, just ask (lightly): "Hey, do you wanna get some coffee?"
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

  3. #3
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    Sydney
    Posts
    7,055
    yes, that's a good approach. So is, "Hey, do you wanna go out for a drink?" It all depends on if you want to go to a café or a pub/bar
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

  4. #4
    Join Date
    Apr 2013
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    1,412
    Actually, I'm not so sure PM on FB is necessarily so bad...it's how I landed myself a not-quite-a-date-but-could-lead-to-one!
    "1,2,3,4.....The highway's jammed with broken heroes on a last chance power-drive!"

    "Glory days/Well, they'll pass you by/Glory days"

  5. #5
    Join Date
    Mar 2012
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    994
    Coffee isn't a date, so there should be no pressure to ask her to grab one and shoot the shit. Dinner and a movie is a date.
    ...as ancient astronaut theorists would suggest

Similar Threads

  1. BBC News : Face to face with the real Santa
    By loveforum in forum Relationship News
    Replies: 0
    Last Post: 22-12-12, 03:10 PM
  2. phone(and sometimes face to face) issues
    By lilwing89 in forum Love Advice forum
    Replies: 15
    Last Post: 11-10-05, 03:42 AM
  3. things you wouldnt say face to face(for fun)
    By Darkace in forum Love Advice forum
    Replies: 8
    Last Post: 04-11-04, 12:16 PM
  4. face to face, or a letter?
    By imissyou in forum Love Advice forum
    Replies: 4
    Last Post: 30-11-03, 03:45 AM
  5. Do you find it hard breaking up face to face?
    By ineedsomespace in forum Broken Hearts Forum
    Replies: 5
    Last Post: 28-10-03, 07:23 AM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •