My exboyfriend I thought was the one, I wouldnt have put down half my life savings if he wasnt. We purchased a house together last year have 2 dogs together, I thought we were doing alright, perfect family for me. Granted we have been stressed with money and were in a rut where we felt like room mates. We talked to friends and family and everyone said its normal to feel that way and eventually you come out of it, by doing a little more just to show how much you appriciate your partner.
I am devasted at the fact he decided we couldnt get past this and gave up. He told me he still loves me and cares about me and that if its meant to be we will fall back. Ive told him multiple times that I think its a mistake and that we can work on it but hes convinced. Now talking with him hes short with me and I feel super annoying, but then we will go a few days without speaking and hell send me little things like my neice (who is 2) was asking about you today, run to the truck seeing if you were still in there. What am I to say? I said Awh. He knows where I stand and that im having a hard time dealing with our break up but I feel like hes stringing me along aswell. I know still cares but why he doesnt want to actually work on it confuses me; how you can throw 3 years away blows my mind. I feel so let down by him but I know I still love him. I just dont know what to do.