How many people have you slept with

[UnderTheMoon]

of course they do. But on the other hand there is a difference between sex and relationship. They definetely cannot have relationship with whoever they like, despite sex. And if they have too many partners you know what they say... Despite men ( men with many pertners are considered for playboys).

As for me: 25 - 3

also never trust woman when they talk about their partnes because: "If I was drunk and dont remeber exactly what happend, nothing happend. If I slept with more than one guy at the same time (same night or multiple relatoship - count as 1. if he is cheating and I do it only for revenge dont count that. Bad sex - no sex... etc.... Sounds funny but this is how it really works. Every psychologist tells you that. Reason is women are able to incredebly believe their own lies. They think slightly different than us, men.

And now watch as they are gonna react. You will see what I mean.

Don't slump your ignorant uninformed psycho babble with what I am going to school for. Every Psychologist does not tell you that, they do not make such distinguishing differences between men and women except for our emotional construct. If you knew any better you would know that a oxytocin is a hormone that is released in both men and women, and is the one thing that while a guy may be able to pull away after a sexual encounter easier than a woman is just that, testosterone mutes out this hormone while estrogen amplifies it. So if anyone was full of bullshit comments like, "This didn't count cause I was drunk." It would be the man forgetting while that poor woman, is stuck with that one time etched into her brain permanently. Probably remembers it being poor at that too because that is another down fall for men. A lot of men, not all I won't all of you together, it's bam and over, a woman, can have an orgasm for up to 10 very long and wonderful minutes, I have experienced and heard even longer, sometimes it lasts the whole time. So why in high heaven would a woman want to risk that kind of sexual ruin in the way you described? She wouldn't. Believe what you want, but you have been educated.
Oh btw, I don't drink, I don't do drugs, and I have had sex, and that includes all forms from heavy petting, oral, and penetration with two people only. Call me whatever but make sure you include "Picky bitch" in the phrase. Only two people and I have never had an urge for a one night stand or a FWB. Stick that in your pipe and smoke it genius, good grief.

[michelle23]

^^^^ some men become more attached than many women do. Its just a stereotype that men don't bond emotionally through sex. One night stands are different-most men and most women will not become attached after a one night stand and one or both may regret the experience. Apparently men associate slutty women with drug addicts (the lowest of the low in their mind) and that is why they feel the urge to run away from her if they do have sex with her (many will just avoid sex with a ho completely)

I think its the same for a lot of women. I had one bad experience (one night stand) and I never wanted to see him again and I never wanted to have another one night stand again.

I don't think men and women are that different. I think if a man is a porn addict or a sex addict or extremely insecure than it will change his view of women but in general most healthy men (emotionally and mentally) do see sex as an emotional thing and they want to share it with someone they care about. They may see it different when they are 16 and its all about the ego and proving themselves

[UnderTheMoon]

^^^^ some men become more attached than many women do. Its just a stereotype that men don't bond emotionally through sex. One night stands are different-most men and most women will not become attached after a one night stand and one or both may regret the experience. Apparently men associate slutty women with drug addicts (the lowest of the low in their mind) and that is why they feel the urge to run away from her if they do have sex with her (many will just avoid sex with a ho completely)

I think its the same for a lot of women. I had one bad experience (one night stand) and I never wanted to see him again and I never wanted to have another one night stand again.

I don't think men and women are that different. I think if a man is a porn addict or a sex addict or extremely insecure than it will change his view of women but in general most healthy men (emotionally and mentally) do see sex as an emotional thing and they want to share it with someone they care about. They may see it different when they are 16 and its all about the ego and proving themselves

Yea I know, I was giving the science portion to why. I just remembering having to do a case study and almost all of the men in that study forgot details to their sexual encounter and I thought, "Must be nice jeeze." Where as women remembered WAY more after a certain amount of time passed. I would like to think if a guy became attached that it was just like you said, emotionally and mentally healthy. I was just sharing the info and thinking about all the women that are out there that get attached. Like an earlier post, that girl there wanted to be in a relationship with some crazy rude guy that she had FWB with. People are curious things but you are right. Men do bond emotionally through sex like women. I was just sharing some info but yeah. lol.

[Call Me Maybe]

I'm 28 and have slept with 15 women. Been with the same one (wife) for 3 years

[YoungCosmo]

...owner of a lonely dick...*le sigh*

[Jaque]

34, 21 (including one girl)...funny thing, though, I was a late bloomer and was a virgin until I was 25. Then, after I got divorced, I guess I was kind of making up for lost time.

[michelle23]

id say all rules go out the window after a divorce. If I get divorced (if I get married first lol) then I will give up on love and find a FWB. one failed marriage will be enough for me. I dont want a second one

[Rudeboyy]

21, lost count after double digits

[searock]

I don't get people who sleep with so many people... I don't think I'd enjoy it, I need to have an emotional/intellectual connection with someone in order to enjoy sex with them... I mean it in a totally non-judgemental way, I honestly don't understand that's all! I imagine I would be very embarrassed/uncomfortable to sleep with a guy I barely know.

[michelle23]

im the same as you searock. i think its low self esteem personally for men and women who want to count the number and have set a goal like 20,30, 40 etc before settling down.its immature and just shows insecurity

[Sparkling]

19 and none

Plan to save my virginity for marriage.

[searock]

im the same as you searock. i think its low self esteem personally for men and women who want to count the number and have set a goal like 20,30, 40 etc before settling down.its immature and just shows insecurity

Wow - some people actually do that? How sad/ridiculous! I agree with you.

[michelle23]

Wow - some people actually do that? How sad/ridiculous! I agree with you.

lol ya thats why most people who sleep around do that to prove a point, ego boost, make themselves look more attractive or whatever.

[YoungCosmo]

It's not low self-esteem; it's called "winning." A guy has to do that to have value. Notice that no one important is a virgin all of their life these days. Not having had sex at an older age disqualifies them from having their opinions heard. After all, what can a VIRGIN possibly know about anything? 80% of life is sex.

[Sparkling]

It's not low self-esteem; it's called "winning." A guy has to do that to have value. Notice that no one important is a virgin all of their life these days. Not having had sex at an older age disqualifies them from having their opinions heard. After all, what can a VIRGIN possibly know about anything? 80% of life is sex.

What?? uh, no!