Fiancee had one night stand ... having trust issues

[Wakeup]

Haha, I've been asking myself the same question

Maybe one who cooks, cleans, bears children and never leaves the house? Just kidding

Now, where did I put that frying pan..

[stev123]

Now, where did I put that frying pan..

Back in the kitchen haha

[VincenzoG91]

a "legitimate woman?" One wonders what your definition of that is. O.O

His mother.

[michelle23]

double standards.. hell never get a "legit woman" and if he does mansge it-he wont be able to hold onto her with that attitude. guys like that have ALOT to learn. let him learn the hard way

[stev123]

double standards.. hell never get a "legit woman" and if he does mansge it-he wont be able to hold onto her with that attitude. guys like that have ALOT to learn. let him learn the hard way

Refer to the thread I made a few days ago, I'm quite happy right now and I'm not cheating on her. Please take the feminism somewhere else

[michelle23]

no i will stand my ground on equality. its not too much to ask for. not to the emotionally intelligent males round here anyway . love you guys

[michelle23]

it is true. no self respecting confident woman with high self esteem, independence, brains and beauty wants a sleaze.

[overanxious]

one of my good female friends who just got married revealed to me months ago(she was engaged for awhile) that she went to get a massage and got really aroused although she didnt react on it......so i think it just happens to women....if she was single at the time it seems that its ok for her to act on the impulse i guess....but id be a bit worried in your situation...i dunno....its a tough line...women are women

[Wakeup]

it is true. no self respecting confident woman with high self esteem, independence, brains and beauty wants a sleaze.

Whats your definition of a "sleaze?" Are you now calling Stev a "sleaze" Or is it all men who have had more then one woman a "sleaze" in your opinion?

[stev123]

Whats your definition of a "sleaze?" Are you now calling Stev a "sleaze" Or is it all men who have had more then one woman a "sleaze" in your opinion?

It's okay, I'm sure she's going through a hard time and is in the mindset of 'all men are jerks'.

I'm not going to insult your pent up judgement and ignorance, but a lot of men and I speak for every of my friends who are all well off (pilots, businessmen and people who are going to top universities) all do have
sexual relationships with women, and to call them idiots or a sleaze just shows your ignorance. All these guys are doing is just making it through - of course we all want a good woman who is trustworthy etc etc,
but the reality of it is we're not gonna sit there waiting for that day watching porn and beating it, we'll just play with whatever we have and enjoy it till a real woman comes along.
So please stop being so narrow minded. As for the feminism, I'm sure every male and female want their say in the world, but feminism only speaks for women - so please just be realistic instead of living a world of your own.

[Am I crazy?]

I applaud your girlfriend for telling you what happened and see it as no big fricking deal. She was single and screwed a guy that was making her feel good. I really don't consider it a one night stand, it sounds more to me like just a happy ending to a very good massage. had she been married to you then you could bitch about it, but sorry, she was single and its off limits to you. Does it make her a sleeze? not at all. Does it show that she had a moment of poor judgment in a very relaxed setting, possibly but remember she was single and was allowed to screw anything that moved if she wanted to.

Steb123,

I hear you loud and clear. Some of these women here (not all) are clueless.

[michelle23]

my point is who are you to judge any women who have sex with you? you call them whores. what does that make you then?

i cant stand men who will f**k anything but think they are somehow entitled to marry a "good girl" or a virgin. those kinda double standards are bull

[stev123]

my point is who are you to judge any women who have sex with you? you call them whores. what does that make you then?

i cant stand men who will f**k anything but think they are somehow entitled to marry a "good girl" or a virgin. those kinda double standards are bull

Because they are lol, men aren't the ones who allow entry women do. And women don't have the same kind of testosterone men do - men are always thinking about it and are eager, women only when they are triggered. Majority of the women who have this kind of sex have attention/daddy issues.
It's not a double standard, it's the way it is. For a guy to get sex they need a good amount of game, confidence and looks. Where as girls can pretty much just open their legs and say okay who's up for some.

You clearly have more of an issue with men sleeping with other women which bothers you, just get over it - it's just sex.

[michelle23]

not all men are like you but think what you like

[michelle23]

and its not just those women who have issues. the men shagging them normally do too