time heals all wounds guys. pain is only temporary. just try to heal in a constructive way. dont try to replace an ex with someone new-not till your over the ex, try not to drink much, dont take drugs etc. you just gotta be strong, boist your confidence on your own through hobbies,friends, family, work, study, exercise etc

its a process. takes time but you gotta pick yourself up, dust yourself off and try again.