he doesn't seem to enjoy sex at all - men, some insight?

[smackie9]

We're not officially in a relationship

Wow I bet he doesn't think this....poor guy.

[lalalita]

Wow I bet he doesn't think this....poor guy.

Not at all! He is very well aware we are not in a relationship. It has been discussed many times.

Why would you assume that?

[lalalita]

well then what is the point in seeing him when you could be out looking for someone you are 100% on? sounds to me like your settling for 5th best right now. do you not think you can do better?

He's a great guy, and the only reason we can't spend much time together right now is because he works a lot. Which is a quality I like, especially since I'm looking to settle down and have children. :]

[smackie9]

I assumed because he said he loves you...that led me to think he is thinking this more than a meet up.