girlfriend said something weird

**lukezorro** · 16-06-13, 10:57 PM

she was high and said something weird last night about us. part of me thinks she didnt mean it cuz she was high. usually she can get a bit aggitated when shes like that

should i talk to her about it or just let it slide? it seemed like just a small thing considering the night went great

**4 ratties** · 16-06-13, 11:23 PM

Who cares what some stoner said

**HeartIsAching** · 16-06-13, 11:47 PM

Well? WTF did she say?

**michelle23** · 17-06-13, 01:13 AM

what did she say?

**smackie9** · 17-06-13, 01:21 AM

Ya you are going to have to be more specific or we can't help you.

**lukezorro** · 17-06-13, 05:23 AM

i said "we should go to this show next month" and she said "yea..if were still together"

lalalita · 17-06-13, 05:55 AM

people under the influence of drugs or alcohol tend to speak the truth, or word things in tactless ways. she may be having doubts about your relationship. ask her when she's sober.

**smackie9** · 17-06-13, 06:07 AM

It seems to me you are a pussy and let a lot of things slide with this girl for fear of losing her....and let her get away with most anything. Time to man up and confront her, then suggest you need to have some space. You need to show her shes not the one in control here.

**lukezorro** · 17-06-13, 07:59 AM

i didnt understand considering earlier she was talking about how happy she is with me and how she sees a future between us

**michelle23** · 17-06-13, 08:15 AM

tell her what she said and ask her what she meant. man up-dont tiptoe around the issue. if she is having doubts its better you know sooner rather than later and then you can decide what your gonna do about it

**neilpie** · 17-06-13, 09:10 PM

were you acting differnet?

**smackie9** · 18-06-13, 01:02 AM

That can change over night hun. Talk about the future is just that, talk and should never be taken as a made promise.

**MrHV** · 18-06-13, 06:53 AM

Originally Posted by michelle23

tell her what she said and ask her what she meant. man up-dont tiptoe around the issue. if she is having doubts its better you know sooner rather than later and then you can decide what your gonna do about it

I agree with Michelle here. There is probably something bugging her and it might not even be you. Really, you might just not even know something she'd going through. So you have to man-up and not tiptoe, but don't do it in a hard or accusing manner. Just do like Michelle said and you should be fine

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