do i come off as lcingy

[kylegins]

i was wondering if you all could help me here

sometimes i come off as clingy or suffocating but in my relationship now i have been toning it down

1) i dont always initiate conversation. some day si do, and some days i let her

2) i do ask her to go out alot but i enjoy spending time with her, so its a catch 22

3)when she doesnt feel like going out and just wants to relax at home and have alone time, i understand. i dont get upset or mad

4)if i call ehr and she dont pick up i never call again. i wait for her to get back at me

5) i never talk long term future(we been together 3 months)

6) i never question her on who she is with or what shes doing

7)sometimes i get a bit sad when she leaves for the night but i dont get all upset. i just enjoy spending time with her

so what ya think?

clingy or no?

[lalalita]

nope. you sound perfectly normal.

[4 ratties]

You're good

[michelle23]

Ya your fine. However if you can see a future with her-there is no harm in telling her that. You need to know that you are on the same page and working towards the same goal