Plz help me .. Its now or never..

[raghav25]

I love a girl ,bt we hardly talk .. i once dropped her a message that u r verynice grl thanks.. She replied me bak .. u are a very nice guy but u wont get anything talking to me.. So i went to her house reading that message .. She came out..
She said my bf is inside so cant take u in tell me what u wanted to say..
Then i said can we sit on the stairs , she said u sit ill stand..
Then she said if you have done this much for some other girl she whould have fallen for you by now.. but not me..
Then i said i brought gift for u .. she said i cant take it then i said its god ,its for my first salary.. she said ok my first and last gift and started smiling ..
then i said u sent me that msg thats why i came here..
then she ooh for such a small thing u came to meet me from so far.. i appreciate this.. then i told her that she is so nice grl .. how much she mean to me. i said sorry for all past goof ups.. she said why u like me so much .. she said how will u live without me..
i said i dont know..
then she said there is no hope ..
she said u will disturb me after marriage too ? i thought of saying uwll get married to me ,. but then i thought it will be too much hurry.. i dont knwo how i said u know about my ex she got married to but i dont disturb her.. i care for some one there happiness matters to me the most .. if you are married i will just want to be with you.. in whatever way or form.. i just want to know how are you.. then she said i dont text you bcz u might feel i m thinking of u.. u muct have told about me to all ur frds.. then i siad i just think about u all the time.. whatever i do i think of you.. then she siad there is no hope.. Then she said i dont have a bf hich she was saying he is inside.. as she doesnt recieve my call i said can we talkk once a month , then i said its too much once in 15 days,, she said thats wahy i dotn want to talk and started smiling .. then i said i should leave ,i dont knwo she was angry and she went away angrily.. i am diying here i dont what she thinks.. looks like sometimes she likes me and sometimes she cares for me but not like me .. plz tell me i dont have much time here bcz her college will be over in a week

[devip]

Girls are really confusing some times. I think she is scared of something so not ready to commit. All the best.

[michelle23]

shes not interested and your just annoying her. you need to take a hint, back off and leave her alone. what you are doing is stalkerish, creepy and harassment so stop it now

rejection is a part of life. get used to it

[raghav25]

shes not interested and your just annoying her. you need to take a hint, back off and leave her alone. what you are doing is stalkerish, creepy and harassment so stop it now

rejection is a part of life. get used to it

I agree but it looked that way but i feel she wanted me to propose to her .. otherwise why a girl will change her sentence when she started with she has a bfrd to She doesnt have a bfrd.. anyways thanks for ur reply buddy its a long story.. she was getting married that time..

[raghav25]

Girls are really confusing some times. I think she is scared of something so not ready to commit. All the best.

True buddy she knew she will get married in a month or so thanks for ur reply btwn , i always feel that she wanted me to propose her but anyways now i regret and i feel that i screwed everything ..

[raghav25]

Guys @[michelle23] @[devip] but i didt get few things :
1. If a girl really wants u to go away why will she divert from what she said initially (i have a brfd)
2. Why will she say how will you live with otu me, why you love me so much ,..

I seriously feel she wanted me to talk to her everyday but when i said can we talk in 15 days she was pissed of and she left angrily ..Please do let me know

[michelle23]

1. If a girl really wants u to go away why will she divert from what she said initially (i have a brfd)

Saying I have a bf is a good excuse to make someone go away even if you dont really have a bf.

2. Why will she say how will you live with otu me, why you love me so much ,..

I dont know but she kept saying "theres no hope, theres no hope".

I seriously feel she wanted me to talk to her everyday but when i said can we talk in 15 days she was pissed of and she left angrily ..Please do let me know

It sounds like she enjoys the attention-it probably gives her an ego boost but if she was really interested-you would be together by now. You need to let it go

[raghav25]

Saying I have a bf is a good excuse to make someone go away even if you dont really have a bf.



I dont know but she kept saying "theres no hope, theres no hope".



It sounds like she enjoys the attention-it probably gives her an ego boost but if she was really interested-you would be together by now. You need to let it go

I dont know i feel when she saw me after so long she felt a ray of hope, initially she said about her bfrd bcz may be she was unsure.. but when i told her how much i like her she changed to i dont have a bfrd.. I dont knwo how i have to react to that situation .. It started with how much i like her and it went to i just want to be your frd to she went angrily may be bcz something i said wrong in the sense she find something stipid(either talking baout my ex or talking about her job (as i said i am lookign out for a job for u, or sayign can we talk in 15 days,or i didt propose her or i never said i can do anythign for u)... Something she didt liek .. If she was angrily will she reply to my messgae if i say i came for you.,it was so nice to see after so long. just want to talk to u once a month.. i am going now but dont forget what u said and a smiley ..
I dont knwo what mistake i made.. but it all went wrong.. she kept on saying you love me so much ,why you liek me so much and all that

[michelle23]

If she is confusing you and giving mixed signals just tell her straight "I really like you, I would love to take you on a date" and see what she says. If she says no or maybe or gives an excuse-you need to forget about her.