Well, for the second time, stupid shit ruined a meetup. My phone died, the place was permanently closed and I waited in the hot sun for an hour after just managing to have enough battery to call her and let her know about a Starbucks across the street. She got lost because my terrible directions compounded the situation and now everything is ****ed up.
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22-06-13, 09:43 AM #46
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"1,2,3,4.....The highway's jammed with broken heroes on a last chance power-drive!"
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22-06-13, 03:14 PM #47
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No it's not... just ask her to reschedule, and let her choose the place this time. Laugh about what happened with her (with self-irony, NOT self-deprecation), it's actually a good bonding experience - negative experiences always are, when you share them with someone.
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22-06-13, 03:16 PM #48
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She hung up on me after I tried to call her once I got home. I really, really, REALLY needed this one to pull through.
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"Glory days/Well, they'll pass you by/Glory days"
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22-06-13, 03:39 PM #49
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Send her a text telling her you're really sorry etc...
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22-06-13, 06:43 PM #50
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I decided to wait until tomorrow/later. Got drunk and pondered if this might have been another blown chance and if 4 times is asking too much of life..
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23-06-13, 03:16 AM #51
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Pull up a different one to have a meet up.....this one is a wash.
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23-06-13, 03:21 AM #52
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Oh yeah. It's THAT simple. Although I do have 2 meetups within the next 4 days...one is purely platonic, sadly.
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"Glory days/Well, they'll pass you by/Glory days"
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24-06-13, 12:48 AM #53
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Originally Posted by YoungCosmo
YC - Smackie is right, find a new girl to chase. Originally Posted by smackie9
Actually, you should have passed on this one just for her putting social anxiety into her profile. *Everyone* has some kind of issue(s) but you want to stay away from those who announce them publicly like an anthem. They make excuses before they even get started and that is not the kind of person you want as a partner.
Doesn't anyone have a sense of reserve anymore? I mean, you post *anonymously* on this site to get help for your problems. Why? Because you don't want your issues publicly aired, right?
My SO and I shared a lot about each other after meeting online, but only b/c we really connected. We certainly didn't e-vomit on each other in our profiles before we even met. Beware those who overshare. There is a fine line between 'honestly' and 'drama', IMO.Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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24-06-13, 12:51 AM #54
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YC - really? You don't see the problem with this girl? Originally Posted by YoungCosmo
Hanging up on someone is rude. End of. She didn't even give you a chance to explain. Find a new girl, I really don't like the sound of this one for many reasons. Its too much all about her. Even giving her the benefit of doubt and lets say she was so overwhelmed with anxiety she couldn't take the phone call--you really want to be dealing with that?
I had guys who I didn't connect with. One was rather aggressive on the phone (DJMan for those who know) but I simply thanked him for his time and ended the conversation respectfully for both of us. I would never hang up unless someone was abusing me.Last edited by IndiReloaded; 24-06-13 at 12:54 AM.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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24-06-13, 02:12 AM #55
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She was so cute. And she gave me a CHANCE! 99.99% of girls wouldn't and won't! The stars aligned for this to nearly happen and then they completely split to just completely **** me over.
"1,2,3,4.....The highway's jammed with broken heroes on a last chance power-drive!"
"Glory days/Well, they'll pass you by/Glory days"
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24-06-13, 02:30 AM #56
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You get too invested in girls you don't even know. Hell, you should be more upset if your LF moms here told you to stuff it, but I don't think you would be.
Why is that?
You gave HER a chance, YC. Flip your thinking, doll.
Ah well, my lazy Sunday morning has elapsed. Cooking for the week done, must raise the teenager out of his cave to meet the day. Get some exercise. Ciao, young man. Go forth and ask another girl out, okay?Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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24-06-13, 02:49 AM #57
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It's hard not to when landing a date would be akin to getting a cushy job during the height of The Great Depression.
Well, it'll be a few months before I get another chance to **** up. I'll keep trying and failing."1,2,3,4.....The highway's jammed with broken heroes on a last chance power-drive!"
"Glory days/Well, they'll pass you by/Glory days"
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24-06-13, 02:57 AM #58
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So, what is "the count now?" Originally Posted by YoungCosmo
Two meetings? Well done. Are you going to keep it simple and just meet at franchise that's sure to be humming?
Can I call you Napoleon?
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24-06-13, 03:03 AM #59
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First meet failed horribly. Other dating-oriented girl might have flaked. All that remains is meeting Platonic Girl today.
"1,2,3,4.....The highway's jammed with broken heroes on a last chance power-drive!"
"Glory days/Well, they'll pass you by/Glory days"
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24-06-13, 03:05 AM #60
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At least 7-9 different girls messaged.
"1,2,3,4.....The highway's jammed with broken heroes on a last chance power-drive!"
"Glory days/Well, they'll pass you by/Glory days"
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