That feeling of not being cared for

[Specialk]

In my life i always seem to come second best, i dont know why. Theres always girls i like. Ones that i really care about . I tend to get on well with them yet they always seem to have someone eles that they care about more and that are far more important than what i am to them. It seems to happen time and time again and gets me down at times. Wondering what these guys have that i dont and how i get treated like im not nothing and how i mean so little especially as im a nice guy

[lalalita]

My guess if you're probably picking the same types of women.

[basilandthyme]

You're wasting time on girls who are already taken. Find out quickly if they have a boyfriend - and if they do, move on.

[Wakeup]

Are you asking them personal questions about their sex lives?

[Kavie]

I suppose it's the nice guy disadvantage. Women tend to look for boys who are more 'bad' especially when they are younger. It's just something they do. It's like, not realizing what's right beside you and always looking ahead. Don't change the way you are because sooner or later you will find someone that deserves you. You might not believe this now but it will happen just be you.

[michelle23]

I dont believe that. Only a certain type want a bad boy and hes best off without those women coz they are twats. Specialk the mistake you make is getting too emotionally involved in other peoples problems. Stop trying to be her best friend