getting over this guy my girlfriend slept with

[markmac]

before me and my girlfriend met she slept with this one guy. now he's not the only guy she has slept with but he's the only one that bothers me. i know who he is and he is complete trash. a complete racist who doesn't care about anyone and just uses girls. like i get pissed thinking about how she lowered herself to sleep with someone like him

i try not to think about it but i can't help it sometimes

any tips?

[missdt]

The past is in the past. When we love someone it´s hard to know they could´ve been with another, etc. But I do think that everyone has a moment in time when they choose incorrectly. As long as this guy has not impacted your relationship in any way, put your anger aside and enjoy the present. Forget her past and yours. Move forward.

[michelle23]

she made one mistake in her life when she was single. cut her some slack. Most people have slept with one person that they regret. Its not a big deal. Shes with you now so let it go. You cant hold her past against her