Bf's Ex Gf says she misses and loves him!

[Wakeup]

I agree, but I don't see how that supports the notion that they wouldn't care if you walked out on them. You can't not care and still try to resolve an issue, it's impossible.

If you're unhappy with the way they are, then why would you care? Thing is, if after talking to him about it and he had no intentions of going nc with her and blocking and deleteing her, but he got mad for the way she acted and left.. then that just saves her the bother of being the dumper.

[dickriculous]

But that's all dependent on the premise that he had no intentions of going nc with her, which op had no way of knowing before she behaved in the way that started this controversy itt. If she did know that ahead of time then what would be the point of even trying to work it out in the first place? It would be a total waste of time, effort, and emotional angst for everyone involved.

[IndiReloaded]

This isn't rocket science, folks. It's like there is some status in "I care less than you do"

That's the wrong question, which logically leads to wrong--worse, useless--answers.

She communicates what makes her unhappy. He either thinks she has a point or he doesn't. Then he has to decide to change something or not. If anything other than A --> A --> new interaction happens, then she needs to choose to either 1) revise her opinion or, assuming she is reasonable and her point is valid, 2) leave b/c she won't be happy with his choices.

Next!