About a month and half ago my ex decided that "he loved me but wasn't in love with me" even though two weeks prior he was telling me how he couldn't imagine a future with out me. We dated for two years btw. I was heartbroken but didnt act crazy...I definitely cried while we were talking but so did he. I told him I didn't know if I could just be his friend and he said the same but later in the convo when I said maybe in a few months we could try to be friends he didn't seem receptive.
At the end we hugged and both cried and I was the one that had to pull away. Two weeks later I text him and said that I was so blindsided I wasn't able to ask the questions I needed for closure and asked if he would mind answering them. He did answered in a kind and caring manner and that was that.
It's been a month and a half now and we have a lot of mutual friends and were both invited to an overnight getaway. I would not want to go if he went, it would be too hard, I still love him. I decided to text him to see if he was going and said "Hey... Are you going to the overnighter." He never responded...why would he just ignore me...it didnt end badly, I didn't go psycho crazy on him, heck I didn't even yell at him. Awhile later (like 9 hrs). I text him one last time and said "we'll anyway I heard you were invited and just wanted to give you a heads up that I would be there. Hope all is well with you!" And still no response....what's up w that????
I just feel like everything we had meant nothing to him.