Girlfriend has had too much sex?

[tatatoothy]

Hello forums,
I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now,
yesterday i asked how many time shes had sex before shes 18 and told me shes had sex 18 times already before she met me.
This made me kind of sick to my stomach thinking about it, im not really sure how to deal with it neither.
I was a virgin until i met her and i can't stop thinking about it.
She said she was never sober when she was having sex and was going through a rough patch she also said she doesn't like being touched anymore at all excluding me.
Could you please give me some advice with me issue,
Thanks.

[4 ratties]

Get an std test first of all.
And you shouldn't of asked that question If you weren't ready for the answer. You should never ask that question to a new bf/gf. Idk why people do. Seems like whatever the answer is.. People overanalize the number. You guys are young.. If it works out great. But try not asking ur next gf that question.

[michelle23]

Either accept that she has a past and love her for who she is now or break up with her.

[michelle23]

Get an std test first of all.
And you shouldn't of asked that question If you weren't ready for the answer. You should never ask that question to a new bf/gf. Idk why people do. Seems like whatever the answer is.. People overanalize the number. You guys are young.. If it works out great. But try not asking ur next gf that question.

I dont see the big deal asking that question. Everyone has a past. And this type of question can help you understand what type of person you are with. I wouldn't trust a guy who has never been in a relationship and who has just slept around for 5 years so I would want to know.

[lalalita]

18 times or with 18 different people? those are two very different things.

[4 ratties]

I dont see the big deal asking that question. Everyone has a past. And this type of question can help you understand what type of person you are with. I wouldn't trust a guy who has never been in a relationship and who has just slept around for 5 years so I would want to know.

Well that's a great opinion michelle. If you want to talk about numbers and past sex partners then great. Just not my cup of tea or something I want to share or know about my boyfriend. You can talk about a persons past and get to know them in other ways then just asking their number of sexual partners.

[tatatoothy]

18 times or with 18 different people? those are two very different things.

um, it's 18 times

[michelle23]

Well that's a great opinion michelle. If you want to talk about numbers and past sex partners then great. Just not my cup of tea or something I want to share or know about my boyfriend. You can talk about a persons past and get to know them in other ways then just asking their number of sexual partners.

If you dont want to know that is fine. But a lot of people do and there is nothing wrong with that. Id want to know everything about someone I am gonna let into my bed. That is just me

[michelle23]

um, it's 18 times

with the same person?

[tatatoothy]

Get an std test first of all.
And you shouldn't of asked that question If you weren't ready for the answer. You should never ask that question to a new bf/gf. Idk why people do. Seems like whatever the answer is.. People overanalize the number. You guys are young.. If it works out great. But try not asking ur next gf that question.

She's clean, she hasn't had sex until she met me. which was 2 years

[toyboy]

She's clean, she hasn't had sex until she met me. which was 2 years

she's lying

[tatatoothy]

she's lying

Well, i'm not sure i've known her for 4 years now

[lalalita]

She's clean, she hasn't had sex until she met me. which was 2 years

she hadn't had sex until she met you? so how did she have sex 18 times? also, having sex 18 times with 1 or 2 people is not something to be upset about. at 18, many girls are sexually active. you just have a problem with it because you were a virgin.

[tatatoothy]

she hadn't had sex until she met you? so how did she have sex 18 times? also, having sex 18 times with 1 or 2 people is not something to be upset about. at 18, many girls are sexually active. you just have a problem with it because you were a virgin.

well, ill ask her later to be sure

[michelle23]

18 times is not a lot. You could have sex 18 times with one person in two weeks... i dont see what the big deal is. If its 18 different men-then ya I see why you would be upset but with one or two men-your just being insecure. Shes with you now and shes happy. Dont let your ego get in the way of that