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    I am willing to wait for him

    Hello, so I am a 19 year old girl.. A current college student.

    I have this ex boyfriend of mine, who i can't get over with. Not in a bad way anymore I guess.
    It has been a year now since we broke up.
    We were legal and both our families accepted our relationship. Even now, my father keeps asking me about him because he didn't know we broke up.
    I know I should tell him but I don't have the courage to.
    1 week after we broke up, he has this new girl friend who was also his classmate.
    I don't know, it hurt but I still don't want to ruin their relationship.. I'm just not like that.

    So then, at first, I was hell of a bitter person but now, I just accepted the fact that I still love him and that is the way it is. Being not over him is not a burden for me. Well, not anymore.
    I don't know if what he told me why he got cold all of a sudden is the truth and not the fact that he liked somebody else but does it even matter now?

    For some reason, I feel like waiting for him. I'm not disturbing them but I'm waiting. I know it is stupid but I guess until no one comes to give me a greater feeling that what I felt about him then I would like to wait for him..

    I mean he respected me. He didn't touch me. He thought me a lot of lessons and that seemed to make a mark on me..

    Just sharing..
    any insights about it?
    I AM A LOVE ON THE LOST

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    Yea.. you can wait for him, but eventually you'll run out of patience.

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    Yeah, I am guessing that would happen..
    but I'm not closing my doors on anyone though..
    I AM A LOVE ON THE LOST

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    What makes you think he'd want to be with you again? If it failed the first time, then it's likely to fail the second time.
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by basilandthyme View Post
    What makes you think he'd want to be with you again? If it failed the first time, then it's likely to fail the second time.
    It doesn't matter all I know is that I'm happy that way..
    I AM A LOVE ON THE LOST

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    Oh miki, tell your dad so he knows what's going on. You'll be glad you did.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Empty Road View Post
    Oh miki, tell your dad so he knows what's going on. You'll be glad you did.
    Oh okay.. thank you for that advice.. I will
    I AM A LOVE ON THE LOST

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    Quote Originally Posted by miki036 View Post
    Oh okay.. thank you for that advice.. I will
    You tell him yet?

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    He's not here at home.. )

    Quote Originally Posted by Empty Road View Post
    You tell him yet?
    I AM A LOVE ON THE LOST

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    Is your ex still in relationship with his new girlfriend? do you guys still communicate with one another? if their is some sort of communication between you to and if he still has any type of feeling towards you then yeah wait for him. BUT if you guys don't talk at all you should try to move on or focus on yourself and don't have hope that he'll come back it's been one year possibility is he probably loves her and chances are he moved on from you. and trust me in college your going to meet different guys who are going to be head over heels for you

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    Quote Originally Posted by kirsy View Post
    Is your ex still in relationship with his new girlfriend? do you guys still communicate with one another? if their is some sort of communication between you to and if he still has any type of feeling towards you then yeah wait for him. BUT if you guys don't talk at all you should try to move on or focus on yourself and don't have hope that he'll come back it's been one year possibility is he probably loves her and chances are he moved on from you. and trust me in college your going to meet different guys who are going to be head over heels for you
    yah thanks for the advice kirsy, and don't worry I'm not stressing myself while waiting for him and my "new man"
    I AM A LOVE ON THE LOST

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    I can answer this......you are waiting for nothing...he has moved on and even if they break up, he will be with a new one before you have a chance to jump out of the bushes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by smackie9 View Post
    I can answer this......you are waiting for nothing...he has moved on and even if they break up, he will be with a new one before you have a chance to jump out of the bushes.
    hahaha.. how do I explain this? hmm.. it is ok..
    it is no of certain burden for me.. If I find a new one, then go but as long as I haven't found a new one then I'll wait
    I AM A LOVE ON THE LOST

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    he dumped you for her. Stop waiting for him. Find a man who loves you enough not to think the grass is greener. Your wasting your life. Accept its over so then you can start healing properly and fall out of love with him
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    Quote Originally Posted by michelle23 View Post
    he dumped you for her. Stop waiting for him. Find a man who loves you enough not to think the grass is greener. Your wasting your life. Accept its over so then you can start healing properly and fall out of love with him
    I shall make that an option thank you
    I AM A LOVE ON THE LOST

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