My boyfriend dumped me and is now ignoring me?

[michelle23]

what do you mean? he already broke up with you.. and why the hell would you want to be with someone who can dump you over the phone at 2am without any explanation and then pretend you dont exist? plus the fact that he likely cheated on you! is that not enough for you to think "f**k him, I can do better".

Stop being a doormat, grow a pair and go out and find yourself a new man. Go now!

[Nice]

I think she means she still doesn't want to break up with him even though he dumped her.Anyway, this guy is a jerk forget him love is war.

[Love is war]

I don't want to go into details because it hurts but......... you guys may be right

I have another question, how do I get over him? Sometimes I find myself crying over him, and I don't know what to do. Is this normal, or what's wrong with me? I am not a doormat, I don't want him back but I just need time to get over him.

[michelle23]

Of course you need time. That doesnt make you a doormat. You would only be a doormat if you gave him another chance. Its okay to feel sorry for yourself for awhile (2weeks-a month) and then you should focus on staying busy.

It may take 6 months before you feel fully healed but it will make you stronger in the long run

[madelinel]

Just give him some space.. Something must have happened in his life i think.. no one would just break up with someone out of blue.. Don't try to message him or call him or ask him to meet.. he will just feel more annoyed by this.. 'No contact' until he wants to talk to you or meet you..