Need Help on Recent Break-up!

[SparklyRug]

I'll give you the long story short.

I have been dating a girl for a year and a half. She is everything I have dreamt of, she is amazing. One night after a fight I slipped up and texted my ex-girlfriend (who I left for this girl). She forgave me at first and said we needed to work on growing up. She started hanging out with her Ex-boyfriend all of the sudden and we broke up. He cheated on her in their previously relationship and she said to me the day after we broke up, "I may be crazy, but I want to give him a chance." If we are meant to be we will get back together and be stronger.

We texted 2 days after breaking up and her ex-boyfriend started to get mad. She even texted me saying, "I already feel like I want to be with you, please give this time."

Now that the story is out of the way, what do I do?!

Contact her? Ignore her?

Please Help!

[catnip]

What do you do? Well that depends on what outcome you want.

One of the main things to consider is the fighting? Do the two of you often fight? Do your fights get solved? Are there any inappropriate behaviours exhibited by the two of you when you're fighting eg; swearing, insults, not listening to each other?

Thing is, you really have to take a long hard look at the bad times you've been having and figure out if it's really worth trying to fix.

[thompkevin]

I think you should ignore her for some time. Give her some time to miss you. If you stay in touch with her, she will never really miss you. From the looks of it, it will not be easy for her to forget you. Contact her after some time to see where she is at.

[madelinel]

I think she doesn't really know what she wants. One minute she wants to be with her ex, the next minute she wants to be with you. I would say you should move on.

[milliondollar]

ignore her for sometime