Originally Posted by
ArshtatCinders
Ive been dating a guy for a few months. Its been really great for the most part. We connect really well. We like most of the same things. It's that kind of relationship were when were together we are always laughing. Like we cant just have a dinner with out one of us saying something and the other person having to spit there food out from laughing. I have not felt, or been so happy with someone in years, or what might seem like ever. He has been telling me he loves me for awhile now and only recently have I reciprocated the sentiment. Now that I have put my feeling out on the table I already am starting to regret it and feel like I've been played. Hes stopped making the effort to hang out with me. Maybe its just that before he was blowing off his friends to spend time with me but now hes not. When I try and hang out with him and his friends I basically have to invite myself and I get along with all of them fine but he pretty much ignores me the whole time. It makes me feel like there's something going on that I don't know about or that hes ashamed that im his girlfriend. Which I don't really get because not to brag but im pretty attractive. We went from spending every other day together to once to twice a week. Which is not enough for me emotionally or physically. Also I'm almost always the one initiating contact with him, it would make me feel much better if he would text or call me more. What is a way I can bring the concerns up with out sounding pathetic or like a crazy bitch? In the beginning I made it very clear that I have a high sex drive and like attention a lot. It seems like he has already forgotten. My fear is that he just tricked me into falling in love with him and now that I did I'm stuck and he no longer needs to make the effort to lock me down. Tho if thats the case he is sorely mistaken because if I feel my needs are not being met I will leave, even if it hurts to do so.