i'm afraid

[jakelack]

i love my girlfriend. we connect so well. we been together for close to 4 months. i know people will say its not love but it is. she is amazing. i am so happy with her and we always have a great time. im afraid that one day she will just get up and walk out on me. it scares me. i dont know why. i guess its because i feel so strongly about her?

i mean we have deep talks and great laughs. i have never been with someone who makes me this happy. i try so hard to not let it affect me but its tough. if we go two days without seeing each other i wonder if shes losing interest. its tough to deal with

[IndiReloaded]

You have to realize that everything changes. Even the happiest relationship could end in a moment for something completely out of your control.

Enjoy what you have, for however long it lasts. If you cherish her, then let her know. Life is short.

[VerticalMoon]

People don't just lose interest over night without a good reason unless it wasn't really love to begin with. You need to have more confidence in yourself and the relationship. If she walks away that quickly, then you need to know it's her loss. But I doubt she will. It seems the two of you have a good thing going. I doubt she wants to lose it any more than you do.

Worrying won't help anything. Try not to take everything so seriously. Just enjoy yourself. Focus on continuing on getting to know her and making sure she's what you want as well.

Whatever is meant to be, will be. Nobody knows what the long-term future can bring. You just need to do your best to continue building a healthy, loving relationship each day. If she's the right girl for you, it could end up lasting a lifetime. If it doesn't, then it just means you'll have eliminated somebody who was wrong for you and moved a step closer to find the real love of your life. You'll be fine in the end regardless of how it plays out.

[josh63]

just enjoy what you got

[horndog]

get a grip man...