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    Which would you prefer?

    - A guy with a great job and all the perks that come with it?

    - A guy who has a great personality but not so great looking?

    - A guy who is hot but lacks any charisma?

    Why on which you choose?
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    Stupid question.

    I wouldn't choose any out of the three. Id want a guy who has a great personality, who is honest, trustworthy, genuine, good looking and hard working. Why choose one or the other when you can have it all.
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    You have ONLY 3 choices listed.

    Obviously I have my reasons or those wouldn't be the ones I mentioned. Not random, lmao.

    You can't have it all and wanting to have it all means you are wanting to change someone to fit all you want and need and maybe they are alright as they are without some compromise.
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    ummm I have it all and I never had to change a thing about him...

    But anyway what type of personality does the first guy have? And how not so great looking is the second?
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    Lets say the first guy is nice to his family but a douche to strangers.

    Let's then say the second guy is a 5/10.
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    is the first guy a cheat?
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    The last one and the first one would or could possibly be cheats in the past.
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    then I would go with the second if I had no other choice
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    I still know I can get a guy though who is physically attractive, not a cheat, hard working and great personality. Plenty of those in the sea
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    -A guy who has a great personality but not so great looking.


    But that is because I'm middle aged and hot looking or money is not on my agenda. I like a guy that I can relate to well on an intellectual level.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jffs24 View Post
    You have ONLY 3 choices listed.

    Obviously I have my reasons or those wouldn't be the ones I mentioned. Not random, lmao.

    You can't have it all and wanting to have it all means you are wanting to change someone to fit all you want and need and maybe they are alright as they are without some compromise.
    Lol ladies we have us a feisty one...

    Personality for me, total no-brainer... but that's me. Whatever options you're weighing up if you're not made that way you're just not made that way. If looks are all important to you then dating someone you don't find physically attractive is gonna be pretty much doomed... likewise all looks and nobody home isn't gonna cut it for someone who needs something more... meaningful. Isn't this just common sense?!
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    Why can't we have someone who is good looking, has great charisma AND a great job? Oh that's right we can. And a lot of us do. Stupid question.

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    If I had to pick, I'd go with the second one. A bad attitude is unattractive.

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    Thanks each of ya. Guess we can only click the thanks so many in a row and the button disappears on here. I need to tally what ya'll said so far and see which choice is in the lead.

    No one person has all you are looking for, not a female, not male. Sometimes ya got to take the good with the bad if the bad is liveable, imho.
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    Choice 1-

    Choice 2- 1 2 3 4 5

    Choice 3-

    Picked None- 1 2

    Undecided and waiting on more info - 1

    If I checked that right.
    Last edited by Jffs24; 21-07-13 at 05:01 AM. Reason: updating totals
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