A guy chasing me around like mad, who I subtly responded to showing a bit interest. My response was just smiling and being very polite, saying hello which I said before.
I still say hello to him after ignoring him a few times because I was annoyed by finding out his a player.
I pulled away immediately. As I am a respectable women and decent.
He did try and chat to me in front of my whole department and I blanked him out. I looked around and all the men in the department where looking, it felt like it was some kind of bet.
He does not chase me anymore since then.
His friend and colleagues that hang with him started to try their luck and are leering at me. Some other staff don't even say hello anymore and some grin or smirk.
What does this mean, it feels disrespectful where all these men are trying, what such thing could this guy have said?
I am very attractive and a lot younger than these men, some are old enough to be my dad.
I have not done anything indecent and am very upset as to why the guy would say something bad? I feel it is impacting me the way I am professionally viewed at work.
I feel he may be bragging and exaggerating things.
I feel like telling the guy to FF when he says hi next time, should I continue to say hello or just ignore him. What would he think if I gave him a dirty look.
I had 2 men whistling the other day, I know it was towards me because they were leering but he done it in a tune as I walked passed.
Please don't tell me I am making assumptions, I know my surroundings and am analytical when I see odd behavior. These men never leered at me before ever and people where more respectful.
Do you think if I just ignore these men they will stop?
I really am considering leaving this work place soon and getting a job else where as I really did not want this for myself.
Please advise how I should handle this?