Hi there loveforum,
There's this girl, that had a crush on me while we both were in a relationship. Despite being in a relationship i did notice her a lot.
When i finally became single, i developed a small crush on her, and despite her being in a relationship she always pulled me aside at parties to talk, she always blushed when i smiled at her, and she seemed very interested in me, but i didn't want to make a move while she was in a relationship.
Now she's finally single again, and she has told me that she's completely over him, we have agreed to hang out someday, but she doesn't seem as interested as before.
How do i proceed with her, and where do i stand?
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29-07-13, 03:17 AM #1
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How to proceed with my crush?
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29-07-13, 03:43 AM #2
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beta male lol..
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29-07-13, 03:59 AM #3
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Ask her out on a date. Something local and low key. If she declines, you know where you stand.
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29-07-13, 04:26 AM #4
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Make plans and invite her to them, simple as that. Take charge.
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29-07-13, 04:29 AM #5
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most likely she's friendzoned you for your lack of initiative.
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29-07-13, 04:54 AM #6
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It's possible she felt you were more desirable because you were "untouchable" at the time. Now that you are touchable and she is touchable, there is no challenge anymore.
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29-07-13, 05:03 AM #7
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Well, there's this massive party coming up in a few days, and i've planned to take her to the same remote place she took me last year to confess her crush on me, and surprise her with a kiss and just be honest about it.
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29-07-13, 05:10 AM #8
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go ahead, we're not preventing you. lol..
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29-07-13, 08:42 AM #9
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If she liked you before, her feelings might return once she's you're interested in her again. I think surprising her with a kiss might be a bit too much though, especially when you're unsure of how things stand. I'd suggest at least flirting with her beforehand. That could warm her up for this kiss, and based on her reaction to the flirting, it will give you a sense of whether it's safe to proceed with kissing her.
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I second this answer
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