Kissing and suckling at the breasts

**Noveyor** · 06-08-13, 11:32 PM

I did some research and found out some things about couples where the husband kisses and suckles at the breasts:

1. When ever a girl's breasts ache or are sensitive, everytime the guy worked on them for even 15 minutes, the girl's discomfort was alleviated.

2. If done regularly enough and with great passion, a woman's breasts will over the course of few weeks, grow in breast size, even in their mid-20's.

3. A girl will sometimes even begin producing milk, even if they aren't pregnant.

4. A girl in such a relationship has talked about looking forward to "breast sessions" with their partner.

5. All the couples who do this have talked about how their relationship went to a whole other level emotionally and physically, and in at least two unrelated stories, there was mention of the wife experience this sensation that she knows what her husband is feeling.

6. Several of the women in the stories I have read have mentioned that after the breast act, that they experienced immediately being aroused, "being wet". Being ready for sex after a passionate breast session appeared to be a common occurrence in these couples, one even mentioned being "unexpectedly welcome" to it after the act.

7. The youngest couple I read about had just turned 18 at the time of their writing and had been practicing it through out their teens.

8. Several of the woman have said that it's very, very different from breast feeding a baby, which is non-sexual and calm. While the one they do for their husbands, their breasts are sometimes sexually aroused or sensitive during the acts, and the production of milk that can occur from these acts is in response to the husbands love for her.

I ended up researching this when I was looking up if guys kiss their partners breasts and eventually found many stories about breast suckling and personal anecdotes through out the internet. I think this side of breasts is something not well known and indicates that the dual nature of breasts isn't limited to just how it looks, but in its function as well.

What do you think about kissing and suckling at the breast as an act of love?

For all you couples out there, I can only hope you find new and more passionate ways to express your affection for each other. I only bring this to you so you can know of another method to get closer to the person you love.

**michelle23** · 06-08-13, 11:39 PM

The breasts and nipples are very sensitive. Some men and women can orgasm this way. I get aroused when my bf plays with my nipples. I think its normal. I have heard that many women orgasm while breast feeding too. Its part of the bonding process and there is nothing sexual about it

**Noveyor** · 07-08-13, 12:02 AM

Ah, I see, I read that woman aren't able to orgasm while breastfeeding a baby because of the way the baby bites the breast. While the way a man does will indicate to the breast that the act is sexual and be put into arousal mode.

I'll have to do more research on this, my hypothesis is that the woman who orgasms when breast feeding a baby might have just had sex with their husband minutes beforehand, thus their breasts are still in a wildly aroused state.

If this hypothesis is correct, a woman should at least abstain from sex while breastfeeding a baby or put the breast milk in a bottle if they are still wildly aroused from their husband.

I do have a theory that too much sex will put the body into "emergency" mode and might be the cause of abnormallly high libido's. The emergency mode might stem from an instinct that babies need to be made immediately due to some external factor that no longer exists in modern times.

Or did you mean that a woman orgasms while breast feeding her husband with milk because I did read of that in one anecdotal story.

And the reason I say abstain is because I have a theory that when men "can't feel" any attraction to their wife, it's not because they got tired of them, rather, its a temporary function of the male body after having had too much sex, where the body shuts its arousal down, believing that the woman might be pregnant and to protect her from harm. Guys should instead enjoy this "lack of sexual attraction" and build upon their emotional and spiritual relationship with their partner until their libido returns.

Kind of makes me sad when people break up because the "chemical" isn't there anymore when its actually taking a break to allow the partners non-sex time together and to develop other aspects of their relationship that aren't sexually based, such as friendship.

**michelle23** · 07-08-13, 12:22 AM

LOL I dont know where you are getting your info from.

Oxytocin is the female bonding hormone which is released upon orgasm during sex or sexual contact. It may even be released during sex without any orgasm. It helps build an emotional bond and trust to her partner.

The same hormone is released during child birth and breast feeding which helps mother and baby bond. Some women orgasm during child birth and during breast feeding.

There is nothing "wrong" with it. Its natural and all part of the process of love and bonding.

The same hormone is present in men as well as the hormone vasopressin which also promotes bonding to his partner and his children. I have heard of men becoming semi-aroused when holding their newborn and it disturbs and confused him. Again it is just part of the bonding process. The hormones get confused sometimes. It doesn't mean he is perverted.

There is nothing sexual about it. It is just something that happens sometimes. Type it into google "orgasm while breast feeding" or orgasm while giving birth" you will see hundreds of women have experienced this. Type in orgasmic birth to youtube-you will see home births are becoming extremely popular. They are trying to promote this pleasurable and calm way of giving birth to make the experience easier and less painful on new mothers. The believe that doctors and hospitals make pregnant women feel like patients and women are so tense in this medical environment that it makes childbirth far more painful than it needs to be.

Women are also encouraged to have sex or have an orgasm at home before going to the hospital to give birth as it eases the pain.

Its natural. You should be more open minded about it. It doesn't mean something is wrong

**Noveyor** · 07-08-13, 01:00 AM

I see, I've never had sex before so I can't say anything, but at the same time, I a male of 28, have not experienced things that science has said men experience even if they are single. For example, I have never had a wet dream, even to this day. I attributed this to my brain never having seen sex or the fact that I have never been physical with a woman.

So although the incidents you say have happened, we can't say it happened because that is what is normal until all the factors possibly involved are accounted for. We don't really have a certain set of males to test against since all the specimen's have been contaminated by porn and masterbation, which mars the results by a lot and thus we can't really know if males get aroused that way

As far as I know, I'm the only guy who hasn't experienced much of what guys do, and the factors different from me to other guys is that I had avoided porn.) I think porn awakens a part of the guy that puts them into a certain mode of living that was rare in the old days, and thus you have many of the guys in this society to the point that it appears to be the norm. I do believe that it is not the "default" of men and women, but rather what happens when you over-accelerate your hormones to the point that these things appear to occur often.

This is all theory, but I am mad at science for not predicting me. For not telling me why I never had a wet dream, and for assuming that every male has it automatically without taking into account all the factors that are the main cause of a wet dream.

That is why I eye other things said by "science" suspiciously and always keep an open mind of the other possibilities which may have existed before most people became tainted with the same stimuli that put their bodies in unnatural states.(I mean, in the old days, there was no way you could have this much sex in your free time, especially when man lived in the wild. A man's brain will think he has lots of sexual partners if his brain is seeing thousands of woman from porn, it will not be able to tell the difference, and begins to over-accelerate a man's libido.)

And I am actually an advocate of natural births, especially water births. I do believe giving birth in water is the intended way of giving birth for a woman. A species that does something similar is the Manta Ray, which jumps out of the water to give live birth to its young in mid-air. I read the reason woman have a hard time in the hospital, is because they are forced to sit on a surface, which compacts their innards, making the likely hood of injury during birth much higher.

I think it is the result of a society that has been unnaturally accelerated sexually by porn or the ability to have more sex than was possible in the wild. So we must take into account that other forms of existences were possible before this and the missing natural elements that have been forgotten due to porn changing the wiring of a males mind at an early age especially.

Science isn't done studying many things, especially something as complex as sexuality. We didn't make it, we didn't invent it, so there are still secrets hidden in it. Different modes that are the result of different lifestyles and different environments. It is why we got a variety of different sexual experiences/reactions from different people, and porn being widespread/sex being available in epidemic amounts correlates with the ease of most people being aroused as the highest occurrence of this type of sexual lifestyle.

That is why I think something is up. So far now, "this" will be the norm as far as people can see with their flawed data, until people discover which early life behaviors and environments lead to this type of thing at adulthood and rediscover things that were the norm between couples in the past. That is my theory and I think such possibilities should be considered by people.

**pcmaster** · 07-08-13, 01:23 AM

Its not just about the breasts. Women likes getting full attention. Every inch of her body can be massaged and loved.

Its interesting that breats grow bigger when used regulary. I actually noticed when I used to train, my biceps was getting real big after being kissed time by time. Im sure its love that makes things grow.

Thanks for sharing this breast information. So many girls get their breats igonered on this planed. But thanks to you now a little bit less.

**Starnique** · 07-08-13, 03:19 AM

Instead of doing research, just ask a woman. I know how a womans body work better then any research. A guy sucking my titts doesn't turn me on to the extreme and neither does kissing them. It feels good, especially under my neck and my nipples stay hard while i'm aroused but I personally like my kisses down low.

Sexual eruption.

**AbigailR** · 07-08-13, 03:24 AM

I like when a guy pays attention to my breasts, but if it was so much that I started producing milk I would probably be turned off by that. That's just me though. It would make me think of breastfeeding my child and that would make things weird and uncomfortable for me.

**Noveyor** · 10-08-13, 10:39 PM

pcmaster: Yes, I believe in giving full attention. What I find most interesting where the stories of girls who had been stuck at A cup for years going to B or C cup spontaneously over the course of a few weeks. So for those girls who are approaching 20 and think they are stuck at A cup forever, they should be informed that they still have another chance to grow in their 20s(and the other two chances for growth being in pregnancy and again in menopause.)

Starnique: That is true about asking women, and every woman will have some differences in their stories.

AbigailR: I see, that is good. Also on breastfeeding and producing milk, it depends on the woman, I read some stories where the woman's breasts can tell the difference between man and child and react very differently to each. And I read another where a woman feels nothing from breastfeeding at all, no matter who it was. It also takes some women months to produce milk while others only weeks after breast play. One woman said on her first time, that the moment she thought in her head that she wished she could produce milk for her husband, milk starting to trickle out during the breast play.

**michelle23** · 10-08-13, 10:59 PM