Caring for the girl? Should I do it?

[mikebsynergy]

Ok, so i've known this girl for 7 months, she is an amazing girl, like, perfect in my eyes. But she doesn't think she's anything like that yet I make her happy. I've told her my feelings and ever since it's been a little awkward, but we get through it. So a few days ago I text her this romantic story, because she tells me to every night, this was the first one though. So I ended the story and she's like "You make me really happy, I really wish you were here.. I'd kiss you goodnight, and then fall asleep in your arms"

So then I keep telling her stories cuz we made a promise to everynight, and i think she's just uninterested. I'm there all the time for her and I feel like she doesn't care yet she gets all happy. Just 2 nights ago she told me she was scared about summer ending, she loves it, and she said she wants to feel pain again. I talked her out of thinking that way, we really care about each others feelings.


She's always confused about things and especially guys, her one guy left her and had sex with a girl 3 days later, yet she feels a little for him.

Long story short: I care a lot for her, i talk her out of things, i think shes uninterested yet she said "You make me really happy, I really wish you were here.. I'd kiss you goodnight, and then fall asleep in your arms". But she likes this other guy that dumped her a LITTLE bit.

EDIT1: i dont get why you guys are so lazy to help a fellow out...

[IslandScorp]

I think no one's replying because we're not sure what your question is. Are you just asking if she likes you? She seems to and for now I'd just go with that and not concern yourself too much with her "ex".

[basilandthyme]

Mike, my rule of thumb is that if you can't understand someone, then don't bother trying to make them a partner. Being able to easily understand a person is the basis of a relationship.

She also sounds a bit screwy and I think you've taken on some type of White Knight persona. You can do better.

In reply to EDIT1: I was at work. Hate to break it to you, but my life does not revolve around you.

[pcmaster]

Mike if you wana real advice then listen carefully and take it seriously. You are weak sensitive pussy. Your father feelings for her dont make her pussy wet. If you continue this way you will turn into complete vegetable and end up without her. Then you will wish you would just fck her in the ass from very begining like a bitch she is.

Stop caring about her heart so much and start to care about your dick - it will be better for both of you. I seen(and been) situatons like yours before. You hold back your desires until these soft feelings like love and care comes up. Then some random guy shows up and dont give a shit how special she is just use her like a woman and she likes him more. Thats might be the reason why she likes that other guy too. She wont let you in her heart if you dont do enought damage to rock her world. You have to balance tenderness with aggresion.

When she says shes not so amazing and perfect like you think, listen to her. When you put her on a pedestal you making her unreachable for yourself cause you not putting yourself on same pedestal. Dont be afraid to hurt her cause if you wana good without a bad you gona miss the point of what you had. She said she want to feel pain again anway.
Without kissing, holding her in your handsa nd loving her like a man(like a man not a father) you are going nowhere in relationship. Ask this any woman. Being close to her body touching and caring is the most natural basic thing. Im not even talking about sex. Just being close and feeling body warm. When you touch her your warm gets absorbed by her skin and this warmness goes into blood which flows to her heart.

Bottom line is stop being so protective, stop protecting her from yourself because only one who will suffer is you, its you who invests time and thinking about her like shes God. Thats what makes you so attracted to her while she really dont care that much about your dream world she lives in reality.

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