i love him :(

[patricia]

hello..my name is patricia and i had a relationship for more than 2 years bud in the last two months my boyfriend is started to act strange..in the end he left me because he wanted to have fun ando go out all the nights..he doesnt always answer if i call and if i start to say that i want him back he gets angry..i tried the no contact thing and i must say that after a while he called me an he wrote to me but then i started to call him again because i saw on facebook some photos that a girl put on of him and her..so i called him and he got angry because i act like a police officer... i need him back..do you have some advice? please

[Cerby]

No advice for getting him back, but my advice to you is to remove him from facebook, and block his number. He doesn't sound interested in you any more, but sounds like he enjoys that you still want him. Reconciliation rarely works, and if it does, not usually for long. Focus on doing the right thing to get over him, and not on getting him back.

[Ginger2013]

I think you're setting yourself up to be a back-burner girl, like...if he's lonely, he knows he can come to you and you'll take him back. But...he'll just be using you because he doesn't seem to want you anymore, sorry if that sounds harsh. I agree that you need to block him from your life and move on as best you can, it hurts, but you can do it. And you'll find someone else who will cherish you. I just got out of a relationship and it was hell, still is actually. But you have to think of yourself first. When we're heartbroken, our thoughts are clouded, we only focus on the past and what could have been. What could actually be is that you find someone much better for you.

[pcmaster]

You might love him but would you do same to him as he is doing now? You see his feelings is not the same. You lost him and hes treating you like dirt. Excatly thats why you are atracted to him. He have independed life, his own reality and you cant affect it. Thats why you like him so much cause hes a challenge, hes bad, real bad and you want to make him good again, at least for you, so he loves you again.

No contact thing sucks cause after while ignoring him he conacted you only to ignore you again later. You have to realy ignore him even if he tries to contact you. If he realy wanted you back he would come on his knees with flowers and crying, pleasing you to be with him. Not messaging on facebook or calling.

Now more than ever dont be lonely so you will miss him less. Be together with people that actually cares about you and listens to you. Go to counseling if you have to but you need talk about these things that bothering you. IF you love him then leave him cause he proved that he dont need you. Best revenge is to show that you can be okay without him too. Do whats best for you. Take care and smile cause you desrve to !

[michelle23]

Its obvious. He was cheating on you and he left you for her. I dono if he physically cheated or not obviously but i would bet he was talking to her/texting her etc before he left you. Dramatic changes in behaviour almost always mean there is someone else.

You need to acceptits over. This newgirl is likely a rebound and when hes done with her-the chances of him crawling back to you are high or if hes bored or lonely or horny he may just use you when it suits him. You need to have more self respect and if he comes back-have the strenght to say f**k you!

Start moving on and focus on healing xx

[smackie9]

I agree there is no fixing this. He wanted out, and yes he was seeing this girl before he broke up with you. He has moved on. He might have wanted to just be friends, but realized you were not over him....stupid on his part. You need to stop FB stalking him. All you are doing is torturing yourself for nothing. I know your heart doesn't want to let go, but the quicker you do, the quicker this hurt will go away. life will go on for you, and you will be able to not think of him anymore in time. Take the advice given, take him off FB, delete and block emails and phone calls. You will end up happier than you have ever been once you get past this.