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    Need help talking to a girl

    Ok so I'm a very outgoing and talkative person, now you may be thinking, then why did I name the title as I did. Well I'm a sophomore in high school and there's a freshmen that I would like to be more than friends with. The problem is that with all girls that I don't see myself either dating or anything more than friends with I could talk to them all day. As soon as I view a girl as a girl I'd like to be more than friends with I can't even speak a word to them, not even a simple hi or anything in the hallway. Now to even remotely have a chance with her I need to be able to talk to her, any tips for me with overcoming my awkwardness around girls like this? Thanks!

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    You are going to hate my answer but practice. The more you do something, the easier it becomes & the more comfortable you will be doing it.

    Start with a simple hi work from there.

    Practice some calming techniques before you start. Picture yourself relaxed. Also think positive thoughts . . . that your initial overture will go well & she will respond favorably to you. Finally, don't over analyze every little thing you do or say. People understand that everyone is nervous about dating; anything you do that seems dorky or awkward to you will most likely be seen as endearing by someone who genuinely likes you back.

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    Find yourself a wing man....get one of your friends to call them over and talk with her as a group.

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    Practice, and just take a deep breath and go for it. Honestly, as a girl, I find a little nervousness cute in a guy when he's first approaching me.

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    You could do what Kramer did in Seinfeld when he was attracted to this librarian. He had a friend (Newman) hide behind him and whisper lines to him so he can repeat them to the girl. Or you could follow DalMom's advice.

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    Just practice in the mirror. Grow Confident.

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    Be calm about it, start off with brief conversation, then work your way up.

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    You need to get confident, but you must think about it, if you can't be brave, you may lost her

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