horrible break up

[BackUpOrGetStng]

i'll say again shes packed it in as a condition of us carrying on so no longer a whore as you choose to call it and i've been far from cool with it but if you'd met the girl and fallen for her like i have you'd see why i'm willing to try again

That's where you are wrong. I would never date a whore, no matter how much I loved her before becoming one. Particularly if she snuck and did it behind my back. That's a grimey ****ing whore..no other way to describe it.

That's not what I choose to call it, that's what Webster's Dictionary calls it.

[bluenote99]

well you'll never know unless you fall for someone who does it will you old chap and yes the sneaking behind my back did hurt badly but i found out very quickly as it was eating her up and she pretty much told me

[pcmaster]

After all we had this one GF who was working as a slut behind the back. Its not the reason to dump the girl. It happens pretty much in any relationship and theres no need to feel hurt or offended since its nothing personal but just a job. After all everyone wishes he or his partner had a better job but life is not a fairy tale. Keep it real.

[bluenote99]

nice to hear off someone prepared to be open-minded and non-judgemental

[BackUpOrGetStng]

How many times did other men make her orgasm?

[bluenote99]

How many times did other men make her orgasm?

very few i imagine as penetration was not one of the services she offered and thats pretty much the only way she gets off, plus she doesn't get off on fat old men with poor personal hygiene strangely plenty made her cry though i can testify to that, she really wasn't cut out for it but believe what you choose

[mollymari]

That's rough bluenote.
My old friend from years ago, a beautiful girl who eventually fell in love with my boss, also a friend and the two of them were very happy indeed. They spent years together. Well, one day, something happened inside of her and for some reason she started doing 'stuff' online. I'm talking naked stuff for money. Well, when my boss/friend realized what she was up to he was torn, crushed and ripped apart to say the least.
She left him and the next time I saw her was in a bus station wearing pink and dyed blonde with big fake boobs. Man, why would she do that? She was so gorgeous before. I talked to her. She said she was peeling in the states and married a club owner. Man, I'm still shaking my head. I don't understand.
I don't understand what makes one cross a line like that. She had all she needed, a good man, love, food, shelter but it wasn't enough.
Anyway, reminds me of that.

Hope your doing alright blue note.

[bluenote99]

better for reading your words chic nice to know not everyone on here is the same, thankfully it looks like my gf has pulled back from jumping off that cliff so hopeful for the future and can't wait to put all this behind us, thanks again

[mollymari]

Blue N,
Dang people can be a little dinky. Just read some of the other responses, not very pleasant some of them. Anyway, I feel for you. Your situation really resonates with my old friends. The two of them. True, I knew my boss before I met her but they were both good friends. It really messed him up with a wave of questions and doubts. Eventually he moved far far away, back to Ireland where his roots were.

Blue N, I do not think it is a good idea to go to those escort forums like you mentioned b4. No, not a good idea.
For some reason your ex S.O has chosen this line of work. For reasons that you may never understand and though this will be really tough, time will help.
Seems bunk to say that but it is true.

You ought not daydream about her and other men. Oh man, I can't imagine what your going through. I'm a woman but even the thought of my sweetheart being with another crumbles my foundations. I'm so sorry your going through this.

May I ask, were you two having some serious financial problems or something? How did she tell you what she had started or did you find out on your own?
Anyway, flippin eck, rough one indeed.

I can't think of anything to say that might help you;
I could say she may be as sweet as apple pie and a good person inside but somewhere a compromising choice has been made, an uncertain line crossed and she has brought you along for the ride because it takes two hearts to be in a relationship which is what you had. Had. The fact that she was willing to risk you and her , no matter how sweet she may be, she made her choice there. She made her choice and now you need to be strong, remember who you are and what you have to offer.

[mollymari]

oh oops, sent the last one out before reading your latest. Oh yeah, pulled back from that leap. Oh f___ thank good ness. Big sigh Phew. Well alright then, hey what doesn't break us makes us stronger right? I'm glad you two worked it out. Nothing is worth compromising ones values.
Good on you both

[bluenote99]

yep major financial problems on her part are what started it, the reason i went on the other forum was to set my mind at rest on some things because i was thinking all sorts, she offered very limited services to her 'clients' and i was concerned she'd be tempted/badgered in to going beyond them, the punters forum set my mind at rest on this as it seems pretty much all uk escorts are pretty firm on their service offerings and the punters i spoke to said they didn't ask the girls they met for more for fear of causing arguments and getting black listed by the various agencies, anyway all over now thank heaven so i'll be very happy to put all this behind us

[mollymari]

Good. Hey, at least you can rest now and also knowing the brute truth has come out and your still together working through.
Many cannot do this. Sounds like you two have a strong connection.

and it is true, most escorts are dinner dates for men who need company.

I hope your money situation improves and that you both remember it is the simple things in life that truly matter. and usually those simple things are free. all the best man.

[bluenote99]

cheers hunny i couldn't agree more and yep the strongest of bonds couldn't imagine taking this off any other woman i've been with

[IndiReloaded]

This thread is hilarious.

Anyway, I think I read you would forgive someone for doing something immoral but not if it was illegal? What? lol.

I'd be more inclined to forgive someone doing something illegal but not immoral (cheating on taxes, for example). Screw The Man, lol. You see in the US just how excellent the government is at stewarding tax payers money.

[smackie9]

Everyone seemed to forgive Clinton.....