horrible break up

[IndiReloaded]

Right. Because what he did wasn't immoral... (ducks for cover)

[mollymari]

true love is stronger than many of us

[smackie9]

True love can be mistaken for co-dependency or obsessiveness.

[mollymari]

^Sure, maybe it can be mistaken but this guy (blue) is obviously in love with this lady. I don't understand from so many comments (mostly from men) why they seem almost threatened by Blue's actions regarding his sweetheart. Almost seems like because Blue is willing to work things out with his lady, even after the truth came out about the temporary escorting phase, he still loves her and she loves him, make no mistake. So, What's up with the nasty comments from some the men here? Is is so odd for two people to fight for themselves. I mean come on, buddy shares something very personal, it takes a strong man to share what he did and the fact that his lady eventually spoke to him about what she was doing, their still working it out, does that not speak volumes?
Only the two of them know full well how their hearts are feeling. We have no right to throw unjust and mean comments their way; it is poor form.

Blue, I wish you and yours every kind of happiness; no matter what happens here, your being a gentlemen and the World needs more of those, oh yes indeed it does.

Good luck man. If you love someone and I mean truly wholeheartedly selflessly love them, you do what you can to nurture this; at least then, at the end of the day, you know you did all you can and let the chips fall where they may.

I would avoid the negative comments from you know who. You obviously struck a cord within him rendering him incapable of any just response so yeah, F___ that.

Hope you and yours are very well indeed.

[bluenote99]

thanks so much molly means a lot that someone gets it, shes finished working now thank god she did it for 5 weeks and they've been amongst the worst of my life to be honest but i'm setting that against the other 29 months we've been together and the happiness we've shared and hoping very much that we can have again, there are no guarantees on that and i'm under no illusions that it will be easy to forgive and forget but i still believe she really is worth the attempt at least, thanks again

[mollymari]

Anytime man, you two have a great day!

[smackie9]

See ya in a couple of months.....