horrible break up

[IndiReloaded]

well i must say in every other relationship i've been in and theres been a few i've been there for my other half to support them through difficult times and they've been there for me,life sadly isn't all about growing, you frequently hit obstacles along the way, i think its when you're not here for each other then you haven't a relationship left

Oh, I'm sorry. I was married for almost 20 years and my new soon-to-be husband is simply amazing. Both relationships were/are about growing, even during difficult times. I must not know what I'm talking about. My bad. LOL.

[bluenote99]

Hahaha, Stung is riding you b/c he thinks you are a troll or beyond spineless. What you post says you are one or the other and he's just having some fun posting hyperbole at your expense. Really, you deserve it for putting up with this situation (assuming its true).

Again, we are not the problem here. You post to the internet to get honest thoughts on your situation. I'd say you are getting your money's worth. Good luck.

yeah having read some of his other posts i think i've got the measure of the kind of guy he is, don't think its just escorts he doesn't like think a dislike of most women other than for sex pours off him, can confirm not a troll, there are a lot of escorts in this world of ours and many of them i suspect are in relationships of one sort or another

[IndiReloaded]

LOL, I'm trying to imagine my SO getting into financial trouble and telling me he's decided to become a Man-Ho to pay the debt.

I'd be like "baby, you can be MY whore"; I will pay you for every backrub, home-cooked dinner and orgasm... oh yeah.

I'd eat my own poop before letting him do that to himself. He'd eat his own before disrespecting himself that way. Not the least b/c he knows he would break *my* heart. This is what I'm saying, she doesn't love you, man. Saavy?

[bluenote99]

Oh, I'm sorry. I was married for almost 20 years and my new soon-to-be husband is simply amazing. Both relationships were/are about growing, even during difficult times. I must not know what I'm talking about. My bad. LOL.

we sound like we're a similar age and both been married etc lived life a bit, i'm not young and naive, not easily fooled i've been with this girl a good while and i've got to know her well, the current situation i'll admit has completely thrown me but i've got to believe shes worth at least an attempt to make things work on my part

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Again, never said there's anything wrong with being a whore. I don't think it should be illegal, and I think whores deserve to be in happy relationships. Doesn't mean they shouldn't have to tell their partner, they're a whore. I give the same advice to men and women, and I really only switch it up based on mental state of the poster. I can tell you that I share a healthy dislike for men and women equally. I prefer cats to people.

[bluenote99]

its not illegal in the uk (under most circumstances) not at all sure about the us, we live together most of the time so i found out very quickly (within 24 hours) and my mental state is a bit frazzled as you can imagine its been a rollercoaster for the past 4 weeks, still gonna ride it out see what happens at the end

[IndiReloaded]

I do wish you well but, as I said, this story is as old as the hills. People get the respect they demand from others. It won't end well unless you can make her see the problem with what she is doing. Perhaps that is your purpose being together. If I were you, though, at your age I would spend your energy on someone who doesn't need rescuing. You sound to me to have more than a touch of Shining Knight syndrome and that never ends well. If/when she does wakeup, she won't want you anymore b/c you will have seen her at her worst. If you truly love her, you would be best to break up with her and say you won't standby while she treats herself like this. Say you have standards and that she should call you when she gets herself cleaned up:

http://www.loveforum.net/threads/26633-Description-of-the-Shining-Knight-Syndrome

[bluenote99]

I do wish you well but, as I said, this story is as old as the hills. People get the respect they demand from others. It won't end well unless you can make her see the problem with what she is doing. Perhaps that is your purpose being together. If I were you, though, at your age I would spend your energy on someone who doesn't need rescuing. You sound to me to have more than a touch of Shining Knight syndrome and that never ends well. If/when she does wakeup, she won't want you anymore b/c you will have seen her at her worst. If you truly love her, you would be best to break up with her and say you won't standby while she treats herself like this. Say you have standards and that she should call you when she gets herself cleaned up:

http://www.loveforum.net/threads/26633-Description-of-the-Shining-Knight-Syndrome

there may be something to this but i reiterate we've been together over 2 and a half years this has all happened in the past 4 weeks due to extreme debt problems not saying we never hit minor bumps before because we have but in general its been a great relationship, thats why i want to fight for it if i can find the strength

[IndiReloaded]

Money is the excuse. Awful lot of people in debt these days... good luck Sir Knight.

[bluenote99]

Money is the excuse. Awful lot of people in debt these days... good luck Sir Knight.

yep and it breaks some of them, others commit suicide, not a minor issue, plenty of evidence right here in the uk of the suicide rate going through the roof, as horrible as it is i'd rather have my girl do what shes doing than succumb to that

[BackUpOrGetStng]

This is what happens after "riding it out to the end".




Adios, BITCHES! -Leslie Chow

[IndiReloaded]

as horrible as it is i'd rather have my girl do what shes doing than succumb to that

Wow ..

[bluenote99]

This is what happens after "riding it out to the end".




Adios, BITCHES! -Leslie Chow

hmm more class thanks

[Wakeup]

ah back to your old self then, thought the last one was a bit too reasonable, must be weird seeing the world completely in shades of black/white, right/wrong - funny but the most dangerous people from history have all had that complete sense of moral certainty

If you're okay with sharing your loved with with other men, if you're okay with kissing her goodbye at the door as she goes off to suck another man's dangler, then who are we to tell you anything different.

You've made your decision, you're too weak to be without her even if she crosses your moral, personal and relationship boundaries.

What else do you want from this thread?

[Starnique]

Yeah, Wakeup is right. She has a way of snapping people into reality. You gotta love her. Anyway, after reading this thread you're getting what you deserve. People that do stuff like that sort of black out during their episodes. So you cant try to get offended or treat her like the virgin Mary when that's her job and that's what she do. She's not telling you everything that she does. Trust me, she does it all.

I was just thinking that damn, I know this chic and she's a trick. (escort if you prefer) and they live in the same condos that my friend live in. Anyways, she be tricking it off with all these men who be coming to see her and her bf just sits on the porch until its over. He looks like a complete idiot. You're no different then him. Sometimes he'll walk around the neighborhood trying to strike up conversations. I guess to get his mind off of it. We laugh at him because its weird and you are just as foolish. In fact, he's sitting on the porch at this moment and smoking a cigarette and its chilly outside. I assume to calm his nerves lol. Then when its over, he goes back inside and they always get into bad arguments which escalates to them ending up outside cursing each other out. They be so loud that sometimes a neighbor will call the cops. haha. It made me think of you. Trip to the clinic twice a week? Yuck.