horrible break up

[4 ratties]

40-50 in a month?? Sick!!!!!

[IndiReloaded]

You can't offer a service, then look down on those who use it.

She should rebrand herself as a sex surrogate. I quite enjoyed this funny, thoughtful movie (for non-prudes only):

[bluenote99]

She should rebrand herself as a sex surrogate. I quite enjoyed this funny, thoughtful movie (for non-prudes only):

i might have been more comfortable with that, not much though to be honest and i've yet to see the movie, to the rest of the doubters maybe it will work out maybe it won't but we're going to give it a try regardless, i believe in redemption i don't believe that if someone makes a bad decision and does something immoral (but not illegal) that that person should pay for the rest of their lives going without love,support and companionship i admit there are some exceptions to this as some crimes are so heinous that it would take a saint to overlook them, i don't think what my girl has done horrible though its been for me (and her) falls into this unforgivable until the end of days category, for some perspective on this there was recently a fairly wealthy guy who lived not too far from me who got into financial difficulties due to the recession , his answer? well he didn't escort he did however murder his wife and two children and then commit suicide compare and contrast guys haven't got the internet link for this but i'll put it up when i find it

[Wakeup]

haven't got the internet link for this but i'll put it up when i find it

Don't bother... that and this don't have anything in common.

[bluenote99]

oh but they do wakeup may make uncomfortable reading for you but my gf faced losing her home her independance everything she had in fact heres the link www.dailystar.co.uk/news/latest-news/323027/Murder-suicide-agony-of-broke-family to clarify they lived about 10 miles away from me before moving to spain to make a fresh start and i occasionally used to see the father around town,now this is a horrible tragedy and my heart goes out to any remaining family members, the point i'm making is that faced with extremely difficult circumstances we all hope that we'll behave in a logical way whether that be to seek counselling, work harder get advice from whoever.... unfortunately many of us don't i've never faced extreme debt or losing everything i own but i have had to deal with relationship break ups, deaths of friends and family and i've not always reacted in the prescribed way that society might deem appropriate

[Wakeup]

You're into a chick who can't save a dime and who is willing to use her vagina (behind your back) to TEMPORARILY get herself out of debt. Call us when you discover the thousands she's in debt even worse and doesn't find it so hard to spend your money too.

http://www.artofconfidence.com/whiteknight/

http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/White_Knight_Syndrome_Subtypes.html

http://www.angriesout.com/doormat.htm

http://www.angriesout.com/self-esteem.htm

You'd do well to read about You.

Good luck, you're going to need it.

Doormats:

They may take secret pride in how strong they are and how much they can take. This "no matter what" attitude is dangerous, because it encourages others to heap it on. Doormats are great at addition and look for extra burdens to take on, but they rarely are good at subtracting the unnecessary weight from their shoulders.

[bluenote99]

oh lord i'm nearly 40 yrs old i've had numerous relationships and one marriage i'm not naive and i have seen a bit of the world, its good sides and bad sides including the people living in it, remember this has happened only in the past month of a 2 and a half year relationship which has been for the most part brilliant, yes shes been very irresponsible with money but i hardly think thats a hanging offence either, shes made a very poor decision for which only me and her have paid any price so to condemn her for life seems very harsh, oh and off topic a bit but i should mention her extreme reaction to the situation is most probably rooted in having been homeless for a while having been kicked out of home by her abusive,alcoholic parents at a young age

[Wakeup]

Like I said, you've made your choice. What else are you getting out of this thread besides an opportunity to justify your own behaviour and engraing poor life-habits?

To continue to talk to you about the poor choice you've made in a LIFEmate is just enabling you to continue to justify.

*wavezzzz bubbye*

[bluenote99]

Like I said, you've made your choice. What else are you getting out of this thread besides an opportunity to justify your own behaviour and engraing poor life-habits?

To continue to talk to you about the poor choice you've made in a LIFEmate is just enabling you to continue to justify.

*wavezzzz bubbye*

ok i guess i'm just surprised at the extreme reaction to what my girl has done, it having hurt only the two of us and been for such a short time, your reaction hasn't been as bad as some granted because some have been frankly disgusting, still a little taken aback though by the mindset that a person needs to be written off having made one admittedly horrible mistake, i've had to check my posts to make sure i hadn't given the impression she was a multiple child murderer

[BackUpOrGetStng]

I'm very curious as to why you came here, since it's no big deal? Why are you even bitching about it? Why not just let her continue? It's an easily forgivable mistake, ****ing 50 people behind your back. Why even get upset?

[Wakeup]

One last reply She has not made one mistake. She has been making mistakes her entire adult life. Her spending habits are one manifistation of whats ailing her. Her easily dropping all personal, moral, royalty, infidelity boundaries to try and fix her spending habits is another. Her abuse in the hands of alcoholic parents, her homelessness. You're blind and to talk to you when you're in denial is a waste of everyone's time. So, ciao and good luck.

[bluenote99]

i came on because at the time i'd told her it was over and was finding the break-up difficult to deal with, because i've found the whole thing horrible and confusing i've also been on forums where escorts themselves discuss to try and get my head right about all this and also a forum where punters as they call themselves discuss and rate the girls they've seen that one wasn't pleasant

[bluenote99]

One last reply She has not made one mistake. She has been making mistakes her entire adult life. Her spending habits are one manifistation of whats ailing her. Her easily dropping all personal, moral, royalty, infidelity boundaries to try and fix her spending habits is another. You're blind and to talk to you when you're in denial is a waste of everyone's time. So, ciao and good luck.

ok wakeup having heard about my girls actions during the past month of her 24 yrs on the planet you've come to the conclusion that shes every bit as bad as bundy or dahmer damn shame we don't have the electric chair over here then there'd be no second chances

[BackUpOrGetStng]

ok wakeup having heard about my girls actions during the past month of her 24 yrs on the planet you've come to the conclusion that shes every bit as bad as bundy or dahmer damn shame we don't have the electric chair over here then there'd be no second chances

You are such a bitch. No one has said your girl is a bad person for being a whore, and ****ing 50 people this month. She's just not a good person to pick for a relationship partner. Obviously your previous relationships have left you a withered, shell of a man so you are cool with your girl becoming a hooker behind your back. All I'm saying now, is you've made your choice, now its time to shut the **** up.

Go read the punter forum again.

[bluenote99]

i'll say again shes packed it in as a condition of us carrying on so no longer a whore as you choose to call it and i've been far from cool with it but if you'd met the girl and fallen for her like i have you'd see why i'm willing to try again