The Final Countdown

[MaxHeadroom]

Most just sit there dumbfounded that this guy just asked them that.

Yea, I bet. Unless he is really good looking, I bet that doesn't go well most the time, lol.


Alright then. It is officially time to deploy operation "gonna get some", (Code Name: Final Countdown)

Would anyone be interested in hearing updates about my successes and challenges of this operation going forward? I could really use a support group on this and I really don't know many people around my area.

[surfhb2]

Yea, I bet. Unless he is really good looking, I bet that doesn't go well most the time, lol.


Alright then. It is officially time to deploy operation "gonna get some", (Code Name: Final Countdown)

Would anyone be interested in hearing updates about my successes and challenges of this operation going forward? I could really use a support group on this and I really don't know many people around my area.

No.....it actually works every time . That's why I mentioned to play the numbers game

[pcmaster]

One of my friends did this too once. Girl was just looking lost as if he farted in her face. Guy had a long hair and maybe she thought hes a girl. He even get kicked out of men toilet in the bar cause they thought hes a girl.

Its better to not ask this straight away. But go like this - Hey beautiful ! Wana hang out? Wana have fun? Wana have sex dirty dogy style?
If a girl says "I dont know" then its a good sign cause they change their minds fast once fear goes away. If she looks hurt that means you made her feel cheap.
About 13% women do agree for sex from strangers as research shows. Diferent girls gives diferent reactions, some are flattered, some run away and come back, others just dont understand.

Actually I asked unknown girl for sex too but it was accident cause she asked what I wana drink and I told her "There is one one drink but I doubt this place have it" and she said; "Go on !" I said : "UpSide"(its lemonade with natural grape sugar) she didnt understand and asked like ten times then smiled and said: "You not gona get it." and ran away. She must have thought that Im talking about sexual position cause she came back all friendly and smiling with hot tea when it was ice tea that I wanted. And after like month she just said laudly "I wana fck so bad." And said other girl that Im a "fast" guy. Now writing this I understand that it was confidence and not steping back that gave sucsess. I didnt made a big think out of it cause I was asking just for a lemonade. Again my theory that, giving girls little value is very powerful, confirms.

[MaxHeadroom]

Hmm, interesting. I never want to come off as a jerk to a girl, but then again that is probably because I always tried to avoid rejection. Jerks probably get more girls than nice guys though. I guess I will give it a shot then. I am not going to go around asking women of sex like that, lol, but I need be strong and step out of my comfort zone to make this work.

Like your quote says pcmaster "Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will". Good words to live by

[pcmaster]

Yes you are right. You gave to leave comfort zone before you can be comfortable. Its the hard training that makes fights easy. Look how this guy helps his students become handy with girls by making them fail first. Even if you fail the strenght of character gain will be the measure of your true sucsess.

[MaxHeadroom]

Cool, thanks a bunch for that. Yea, since I believe that I am now at the point that I am the best looking/feeling that I have ever been, and probably will ever be, I got to strike while the iron is hot, so to speak, lol. It is now or never!

I think another big thing for me besides the confidence it just recognizing opportunities in general. For the last few years I have been so stuck in the corporate machine I actually got to the point that I didn't even look at other people when in public. I just went to work and came home; people were just blurry walking faceless sticks to me. Now I realize that anytime I step out my front door that possibilities begin and great relationships can start from the simplest of acquaintances. I have to force myself to consistently be looking for communication opportunities with women.

Just last week I saw a girl shopping on her own looking at hotdogs and such. A part of me really want to go talk to her, but of course I didn't. I guess I could have said something like, "O'yea, I have had those before. They are really good." too whatever she is holding. Then say something like "So what is a good looking girl like you doing shopping all alone?". Would something like that be ok, or too direct?

Like you said, it is a numbers game, so I better start counting

[Exeter19]

(This is a long post. I apologize in advance!)

Hello ladies and gents!

Ok, so I am brand new here and I really need your guy's help! Here is the deal. I just turned 29 years old last week and I REALLY hate to admit this, but I am a virgin, big time! What I mean by that is not only have I never had sex, I've never been on a date, I've never been kissed, I've even even held hands with a girl before! I know, PATHETIC, right?

Why am I still a virgin you ask? Well, it is quite simple really. Up until last year, I really didn't give a damn that I was one. I have never really tried too hard to get with anyone. I have always been focused on other things like work, school, and hobbies. But now, for whatever reason, this whole being a virgin thing is now driving me mad! I thought that after getting out of my teenage years and early 20's that my sex drive would just fade out so I didn't have to worry about it. Boy I was wrong, so wrong! It just gets stronger everyday! If I don't get me some sex soon, I might just spontaneously combust!

So, my question is this then; how can I find a willing girlfriend? I am a pretty decent looking guy I am told and have had several women, good looking women actually, that have come onto me in the past. This can't be too difficult then, but I just don't know where to start really. For the past year I have been trying the online dating scene and have not had any luck. I have used all the sites imaginable, paid and non-paid, and although I have had many promising conversations and even several accepted dates, they NEVER go though! The women always finds an excuse to cancel our date and eventually stops responding altogether. I bet I have messaged over 3000 women in the last year and had no real luck. Online dating just doesn't work for me, period.

So, that leaves me with the real world; now what? Do I just go around and hit on women at random places? Like bars, parks, supermarkets, ect? Is that even acceptable to do or would I most likely end up with mace in the face?

The bottom line is I will NOT be a 30 year old virgin! Within the next 12 months, I am going to get laid no matter what it takes. I don't care if I end up having to find a paid escort or something, it is going to happen THIS YEAR! Of course though, I would much rather have a girlfriend to loose it with than some paid tramp.

I have 12 months. The countdown has begun. What can you guys suggest to help me out of this bind? I am open to anything and greatly appreciate any help I can get!

Thanks,
-Max

i wouldn't do the online dating at all, i think the one on one face to face would always be better, because it is instantaneously, you can actually see if the women is attracted to you, into you, and that is a huge plus, imo. join a gym or even a exercise class, women there to be met, or some other social club activity. if you only want sex most of my friends go the bar route, i find that is more for sex, not for a real relationship. don't have to hit on can start up place appropriate conversations, like at the grocery store see a women you find attractive and think she might be single as her advice on some meal you want to cook what ingredients you might need, like that. bars, send a drink over, ask them to dance. don't think of the prostitute as some paid tramp she is providing a service, that is all.

[MaxHeadroom]

Yea, I too think that online dating is WAY overrated. I have all my gym equipment at home and I have never danced before. Do women like guys that can dance? I always thought dancing was just so pansy ass.

I do want the sex obviously, but I would much prefer it be with a girlfriend, since I have never had one of those. I would only consider an escort if all else fails. I really hope it doesn't come to that though as I would be REALLY uneasy about that. I am going to try my damnest to make this work out though. I can't let myself fail on this!

[BackUpOrGetStng]

You should talk to bluenote99. His girlfriend will **** you for a small fee.

[MaxHeadroom]

Lol, she must not be much of a girlfriend then. I think I can find some sex on my own; hopefully in the form of my own girlfriend and sooner rather than later

[BackUpOrGetStng]

She's his girlfriend, she's just a whore by profession as well.

[MaxHeadroom]

Oh, I thought you were just kidding, lol. I didn't know those types of women had boyfriends. I'll keep that in mind if worse comes to worst and am need of an escort, but I really don't think it will come to that


By the way, do you guys think that what I posted earlier would be a good opening line for that situation? Just testing the waters...

Just last week I saw a girl shopping on her own looking at hotdogs and such. A part of me really want to go talk to her, but of course I didn't. I guess I could have said something like, "O'yea, I have had those before. They are really good." too whatever she is holding. Then say something like "So what is a good looking girl like you doing shopping all alone?". Would something like that be ok, or too direct?

[bluenote99]

Oh, I thought you were just kidding, lol. I didn't know those types of women had boyfriends. I'll keep that in mind if worse comes to worst and am need of an escort


By the way, do you guys think that what I posted earlier would be a good opening line for that situation? Just testing the waters...

don't mind stung he's just being spiteful and unpleasant it's his way you'll get used to it, my gf has escorted for a very brief spell and is now retiring as it's not for her, the first part of your chat up sounds a bit cheesy and forced but the second well maybe, struggling to understand why it didn't work out for you online dating most people find it far easier these days

[MaxHeadroom]

Thanks for the clarification bluenote99 and glad to hear it. Yea my first post wast just letting out all my built up rage on this topic, lol. I don't know why the online dating didn't work for me either. I messaged so many woman in a years time my head was spinning. It is probably because I'm not very photogenic, but am pretty decent looking in real life I'm told, lol.

[bluenote99]

lol thats a possibility but as a general rule if they're prepared to chat with you for a while then they're at least partly interested and not put off by your profile pic, you could always have a picture professionally done that may overcome the non photogenic thing, i did the online thing for a while before my current relationship and had a fair degree of success its a far easier way of striking up a normal conversation and finding out if you've got chemistry etc no need for cheesy lines perhaps the problem was you came across as too pushy/desperate rather than laidback and fun, women can often pick up on that