Unwanted seperation - how to handle?

[MrJones22]

Just thought I'd ask some advice on my current situation. I'm not trying to be spammy, so just to be clear - I'm ONLY looking for advice.

My wife and I are expecting our first child in February. We have a problem though. She is in South Africa and I am in America - I was temporarily deported and don't have any money to go back. Not too sure what I should do...

I have a more complete version of my situation here: www.MissMyWife.com

I appreciate any advice.

[oldskool83]

At 1st I thought this was somone was leaving for good. There is litterly nothing you can do but wait it out, come home and see your new baby. Maybe some video chats or letters and emails with photos...kinda reminds me of that back stone cherry music video, in my blood.

Maybe this will help and give you some ideas.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vQ29Pw1P7DE

[michelle23]

You need to stay close any way possible. Be romantic and supportive-maybe send a love letter a day like they did in the old days. Skype as much as possible and chat online. Maybe send her some flowers occasionally and tell her how much you love and miss her. Being apart is v hard but you gotta keep your emotional connection strong right now and look forward to being home again. Its also a good idea not to make any female friends. Long distance makes you vulnerable so avoid temptation. Good luck

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[oldskool83]

I do no recoment skype...the application can never be deleted. I would question why you got deported, if it has anything to with beating the girl or somthing she may not want to hear from you at all.