Swallowing issues

[Wakeup]

Thanks for the advice. And don't worry I won't take the advice of infidelity. Does anyone know about hypnotherapy and if that works??

Have you tried laying your seed in other places that will be considered a compromise? ... (o)(o) bullseye is in the middle.

[Rowen]

Find another chick who wants to gobble up all your babies, and just do it with her. Ask your wife if it's cool, since she's unwilling. If she says no, and you won't consider divorce, you should just go for another chick anyway...it's only oral after all.

^ No... If you do that, you'll only break her heart.

Pinch her nose so she has to breathe out of her mouth.. do this just at the right moment and ... there ya go.

^ OMFG this is the best post I've seen all day! Lmao Fortunately, I've never had to have someone do that to me. *shifty eyes*

If you can persuade her to do it, she would only be doing it because pushed her into it - and not because she wants to do it. Let's be honest, would you really get pleasure from a sex act which you know she's hating?

Her swallowing or not swallowing is completely unrelated to her love for you. If you choose to interpret it in that way, that's on you - not on her.

^ I agree with Basil. She's trying to please you already by giving you oral, so be thankful that she's willing to at least do that for you. I've known a few women who completely refuse to give oral at all to their men. How would you like to be one of those lucky guys?

Maybe she had a bad experience doing it. Maybe she never tried it at all. But if you already asked her to, then pushing it any further is clearly not the way to go. She should not feel pressured to swallow. She should want to swallow because she wants to.. And pushing it any further is only going to make her feel like you're comparing her to your past sexual relationships and make her feel controlled and unloved.

Don't ruin a good thing by making something big of something that isn't. Remember that this is the woman who loves you for who you are, no matter what.

[smackie9]

Suggest flavored lube.

[Swallowless]

I had a question, not sure if anyone saw.... Does anyone think hypnotherapy might work for something like this?

[Ugly_Swan]

Gotta be honest, surprised you never tried a passive-aggressive approach by refusing to give her oral/avoiding her fluids lol

[smackie9]

You both are on crack. A, hypnotherapy only works on some not all, and have to be willing to do it...and it is expensive.

As for you Ugly, manipulation is vendictive and will make the relationship self destruct.

[Ugly_Swan]

You both are on crack. A, hypnotherapy only works on some not all, and have to be willing to do it...and it is expensive.

As for you Ugly, manipulation is vendictive and will make the relationship self destruct.

lol I wasn't saying he should consider it or that it's a viable solution--was just surprised it hadn't been brought up or considered before.

[searock]

Gotta be honest, surprised you never tried a passive-aggressive approach by refusing to give her oral/avoiding her fluids lol

Yeah cause that's definitely going to work. Passive-aggrassiveness is always the way to go. LOL!

[Starnique]

Stop questioning her love for you. Swallowing your nut has nothing to do with loving you. If she don't like it, she just don't like it. Be glad you're getting sucked off at all.

However, I still think she should swallow every now and again. As long as she just go ahead and swallow and get it over with. After all you'll do anything for her pleasure so she should try it every blue moon.

There's ways, you can trick a guy into thinking you swallowed. Or she can just play around with it porn girl style and straight gargle on it. If she don't like it, don't keep forcing the issue but what's the big deal? A little protein don't hurt anybody.

[searock]

I think his issue isn't much that she isn't swallowing, it's that she doesn't let him come in her mouth. She literally moves away as soon as he's about to come. That must be frustrating. However, it's just one single thing... she just doesn't like it, it's her right and if he knew it would have bothered him so much (so much as to consider hypnotherapy LOL!), he shouldn't have married her.

[Starnique]

Maybe he thought he would get more privileges since they were married. His love for her was more important so its no sense in talking about the past. It's all about what can be done about it now. It's not like he's trying to degrade her. It's still my.opinion that she should let him do it. Force it? No. Vanilla gets boring and I think she should relax a little bit to give her man some harmless pleasure every now and again.

[blutifuldoll]

well..... i thought it was a petty issue at first but now i understand you, I personally hate the smell of semen so I don't even want to Imagine how it tastes, I understand your wife, semen isn't really tasty,,, and if you've been married to her for 10years, I'm sure She's tried taking it but just couldn't. would you rather she swallowed then threw up and have this disgusting look on her face afterwards? I guess not, I've personaly tried but just couldn't. It's not really easy and don't let go of 10years just Because of that.

[searock]

Starnique, the thing is, it's just not something she's comfortable with doing. She doesn't like it and there's no way she'll some day magically start liking it. It's not just that she doesn't like it, it's that she's actually disgusted by it. She basically hates it. He needs to accept it, if he keeps nagging her it will just put a strain on the relationship. He already told her how important it is to him, there's nothing more he can do. He should just try his best to accept and live with it.

[Starnique]

Yes. I understand that and you're right (i know u love hearing that) but I also said don't force the issue.

I was really just stating my opinion. I think she should but if she is like the above poster that gets ill or whatever then he can let it go and maybe just cum on her titties and stomach or maybe just sprinkle it on her lips so it doesn't go in her mouth. There's way to.get around, if they are already doing that then great and he can just accept that that's as good as it's going to get.

[DalM0m]

Swallowless -- why is this sooooo important to you? Would you be willing to compromise . . . maybe if she agreed to do what you want for Christmas, your birthday & Valentine's Day would that be OK. Is asking her to get hypnotherapy -- which could work -- some sort of a test? It seems extreme for something that shouldn't be that bit of a deal.