He talked to me about his sex life

[lust]

We met only 1 time when he travelled and slept together, and we kept contact as good friend and talk to each other daily for almost 1 year. He and i was trying to be friend and behave as friends. We had a hard time to define our relationship since we are living in different countries. and finally we agreed to be good friend.

So i tried to be friend with him,but now he is too honest, he can talk to me anything, who he likes, who he slept with...such that thing.
I still feel hurt and feel i was cheap before.
Why he is so honest?

[Starnique]

Because that's what friends do, their honest with each other. You already have an attachment because you opened up to him and slept with him. So you have feelings. Maybe you need to reconsider your friendship with him if you can't handle it or let him know you don't really care to hear about his personal shit and just have a lite friendship.

[somehelp4me]

It is either as Starnique said or the other side where he does it to see if it makes you jealous and if you still have feelings and want him.
If it bothers you tell him, or change the subject when he starts telling you intimate sex details from his life.

[smackie9]

If you don't approve of him talking in depth about his sex life, then just tell him to stop silly. There problem solved.

If you have feelings for this guy I would suggest to you to invest them somewhere else and stop talking to this guy. IMO I don't see any benefit in even being friends with this person.

[Rowen]

Because that's what friends do, their honest with each other. You already have an attachment because you opened up to him and slept with him. So you have feelings. Maybe you need to reconsider your friendship with him if you can't handle it or let him know you don't really care to hear about his personal shit and just have a lite friendship.

^ Boom! She hit the nail on the head.

[lust]

I unfriend him already, and told him that: i don't think i want to be friend with you anymore
Since, this is the 5th time i unfriend him, so he doesn't give me any msg back.
So i think problem solved, but the issue now is all about me, i feel i am so cheap and now i am not worth an msg back,.

[smackie9]

Why would you feel cheap? Everyone just grows out of their friends throughout their life. This friendship didn't meet your expectations....time to move on, because it's not worth your time....simple as that. He didn't message back because he sees that you want to be left alone.