While agree that you might have more sucsess with direct(physical) approach is still good to show a little apreciation as long as you dont spend much money or time on her.
You can keep being cool if you interact with oher girls. I dont mean sex but just having friends that are girls or basicaly communicating with emotionaly/sexualy atractive girls to get her of your mind. Thinking about her while appart will make you only more invested and needy. What you want to do is not to make her your everything but just a healthy part of you.
Dont think what she can give to you but what you want to take from her and take it without hesitating and thinking. Get out of your head and use more your body in gym or whaever but this overthinking must stop. When you will be able to do it, instead of "does she likes you", you will think "do you like her".
I used to walk into a room full of people and wonder if they liked me... now I look around and wonder if I like them.
Unfortunately, self love is more often than not mistaken for arrogance and selfishness in our society. The way I understand this message, is that, once you grow out of your insecurities and accept yourself as you are, you know that you always have the power of choice. You choose among the crowd people who will uplift you, mirror your passion, compassion, love, excitement... Learning to feel what you want and what qualities you desire to have reflected and amplified by the people around you is not arrogance, nor is it blind judgement (because not liking someone has nothing to do with them, but a lot to do with you, it does in no way mean they are bad people, just not people you feel you would like to be associated with at the moment. And even that can change with time). It is a sign of growth, acceptance and freedom.
Last edited by pcmaster; 25-12-13 at 07:18 AM.
Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will