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Thread: I can't orgasm with him!!

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    LOL! I was just about to thank this post:

    Quote Originally Posted by KingZ View Post
    Everyone here is overly focused on technical aspect.

    What's probably going on is that you're focusing too much on it, and expectations are leading to tension. It really shouldn't matter. Having an orgasm isn't the point of sex. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't. Just enjoy the act itself and it'll come sooner or later.
    then I scrolled down and read my name. I do agree with this ^^^.

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    BAM!

    She came.

    That's how you do it.

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    And I wasn't even thinking about it! :O

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    Quote Originally Posted by searock View Post
    LOL! I was just about to thank this post:



    then I scrolled down and read my name. I do agree with this ^^^.
    Yea.. Its "all about the journey" until you've been together past the new relationship energy... then after that, if he's not getting you off, then that "journey" isn't quite as interesting.

    If he's not making you cum EVER then he (or the both of you) are taking the wrong route.

    BTW: Its easy for a guy to say if you orgasm you orgasm if you don't its no big deal (or some such) when the male is the party that usually cums everytime.
    Last edited by Wakeup; 15-02-14 at 07:59 PM.
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    That's also true. If you never reach orgasm with a partner even after you've been together for a while, I would advise to break up. However, the OP has only started dating this guy recently: it's understandable that she isn't quite ready to "let go" yet. As a general rule I say if it doesn't happen after 6 months EVER (and like the OP you generally are able to reach orgasm during sex), then give up and move on, it's not going to work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by searock View Post
    As a general rule I say if it doesn't happen after 6 months EVER (and like the OP you generally are able to reach orgasm during sex)
    This situation would never happen, unless the partner was just awful in bed, which would be obvious from the very beginning.

    This thread was better when it was just me being right and Wakeup being Canadian and wrong.

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    I actually think it can happen, when a woman isn't comfortable with the guy and she can't "let go" with him. He may be technically impeccable, but if she doesn't feel comfortable, it's not gonna happen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KingZ View Post
    This situation would never happen, unless the partner was just awful in bed, which would be obvious from the very beginning.

    This thread was better when it was just me being right and Wakeup being Canadian and wrong.
    ... ...
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    Yeah, I actually regret typing that. It was 5 AM and I wasn't on my usual massive drug regimen.

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