Hookers Instead of Girlfriends?

**JBG** · 16-02-14, 11:26 AM

I'm 29, successful and making six figures. I take care of myself so I'm thin, tanned, and healthy. But I'm also short, small penis, very ugly, and physically unable to exercise much. Women like me as a friend but are never physically attracted. I've had few dates and no sex ever. I feel like I've wasted my 20's and really missed out on the sensual pleasures of life. Seems like a waste when you can get hookers on Craigslist for $60. Lots of single moms paying bills and college girls looking for quick cash. I've been thinking about getting three a week, for $9K/year, which is less than many middle-class people spend on their annual vacation. I could easily afford it. If I stick with the ones who insist on safe sex, and always take precautions, there is little risk of catching anything. It seems like a great solution. The alternative is waiting 10 years for a woman to settle on me for my money. She'd treat me like dirt because women don't respect small, ugly guys. This seems way better. I can feel like a man, really enjoy life, and not be a 30-yr-old virgin.

What do you think? Anybody else do this? Any tips?

**vashti** · 16-02-14, 11:30 AM

My tip is: don't get caught. Also, I don't know what the going rate is, but $60 isn't much money... I'd be careful about renting bargain-priced vaginas.

**Mattiemae** · 16-02-14, 12:09 PM

Really just watched a documenetary on older twins in Amsterdam that did that their whole life. I listened to why they did it, and why men do this, and I can see now your dilema, and why would you do this, so I'm not here to judge. But at the same time there may be a woman somewhere that would love you and accept you for who you are. What are you doing to meet woman? Where do you meet them at? Really it is your choice, but even with condoms you do have the risk of std's, and while your sexual needs are met, what happens if you do find a woman after you've been with the hookers? Will you tell her you've been with them? Really it is very risky! But like I said, I can see they counsel men like you, pillow talk, and meet your needs on some level, but really is it something you want to really do? Especially off craigs list, how do you know what these woman are about mentally? Ha Ha maybe I watch to many Crime Investigation shows too, but there are psycho woman out there, and if they found out you make that much money it can end up very badly. Really there is alot to think about, and money is just no object for you if you can spend 9K a year on a hooker. Just alot of avenue's to meet and date people these days. So what are you doing to network and meet people. You're only thirty so most people do find appropriate partners in their thirties and sometimes their forties. It's just something to really think about, because if a woman does show up in your life, I'm not sure she'd want to date you or be married to you if you've been with alot of hookers. Unless you end up being Pretty woman flick! lol

**fearoflove** · 16-02-14, 02:59 PM

Get a girlfriend who is really into men with money. Some women don't care about guy's looks and is attracted to status and money.

**confusedguy1012** · 16-02-14, 03:55 PM

Originally Posted by fearoflove

Get a girlfriend who is really into men with money. Some women don't care about guy's looks and is attracted to status and money.

Ya do that if you get caught having sex with a hooker you could get arrested

**smackie9** · 17-02-14, 07:55 AM

Originally Posted by JBG

I'm 29, successful and making six figures. I take care of myself so I'm thin, tanned, and healthy. But I'm also short, small penis, very ugly, and physically unable to exercise much. Women like me as a friend but are never physically attracted. I've had few dates and no sex ever. I feel like I've wasted my 20's and really missed out on the sensual pleasures of life. Seems like a waste when you can get hookers on Craigslist for $60. Lots of single moms paying bills and college girls looking for quick cash. I've been thinking about getting three a week, for $9K/year, which is less than many middle-class people spend on their annual vacation. I could easily afford it. If I stick with the ones who insist on safe sex, and always take precautions, there is little risk of catching anything. It seems like a great solution. The alternative is waiting 10 years for a woman to settle on me for my money. She'd treat me like dirt because women don't respect small, ugly guys. This seems way better. I can feel like a man, really enjoy life, and not be a 30-yr-old virgin.

What do you think? Anybody else do this? Any tips?

If you make 6 figures then why are you looking on craigslist? High class call girls is where you want to be with this. You pay $1000 not for sex but for them to leave and keep their mouth shut. You won't get that for 60 bucks, so stop being a cheap prick.

A good start would be to find a high end rub and tug.

**JBG** · 17-02-14, 09:21 AM

Yup Vashti, you'd want to be discrete and careful about it.

Hi Mattimae, thanks very much for the non-judgmental reply. I've asked out friends and tried online dating. I have no trouble making friends, but they aren't physically attracted. You're right, it would be an issue for most women looking for a relationship. But honestly, if I never told anyone, then it probably wouldn't come up. Haha, you could meet a psycho on Craigslist. You could also meet one on eHarmony. I'm just looking for casual sex, a little friendly pillow talk, and an informal arrangement. With amateurs you don't have to deal with the seedy brothel stuff. You meet in some lady's apartment and trade an hour of her time for grocery money. Nothing wrong with that. What was the name of the documentary you saw?

That's true fearoflife, but would you want to take someone out on dates just so they can spend your money? Rather just go out with female friends and have sex on the side.

Confusedguy, its actually legal because you aren't paying for sex, you're answering a personal ad. Its none of the state's business if two consenting adults meet, hook up, and one gives the other a small gift.

Smackie, why blow $1000 on 2 hours of sex? If you did that twice/week it would cost $100K/year, which is my entire after-tax income. Besides spending a ridiculous amount of money, you'd also be getting some slick pro that would treat you like a mark. She'd act like a porn star and put on a big fake show. I'd much rather pay some nice, averagely cute woman $60-100 for a couple hours of laid-back stuff at her place. She's grateful for some easy money and we have a friendly chat afterwards. Doesn't that sound a lot better to you?

**Mattiemae** · 17-02-14, 10:08 AM

Meet The Fokkens was the title! Ha ha! Well I wish you good luck! I've only talked to a woman who was asked to do that once online, and would have gotten an apartment, gifts, and everything, but she turned it down. Not familiar with it myself, but no the lawyers and big shots back home in the bars do that stuff. I know of it, but never stepped in that arena. Most of them are married. No i'm not judgmental about it, I rather be open minded, and listen and understand why people do what they do. That is why I watched the documentary. It's easy to judge people, but really like in the movie the one sister was being abused by her husband and forced to start doing it to bring money home when she was younger. So we don't always know why until we hear the story of how it happens.

**smackie9** · 17-02-14, 10:10 AM

Suit yourself. I have seen what's on Craigslist for 60 bucks....not so cute, if they were they would be spinning on a pole for way more money. Well I guess beggars can't be choosers.

**JBG** · 17-02-14, 10:44 AM